Been sick with a very severe flu and my baby is sick too. FIL calls husband asks to see baby. My husband says OP and LO are sick . FIL obviously doesn’t care about me literally said it out loud too when we were living with them.
Says okay I’ll still bring the stuff down that my husband had asks for. FIL treats his mother horribly and MIL ofc does too but make sure she’s close to HER mother. As th cycle goes.
Just makes me so upset that they think we’re going to drive three hours to them in their middle of nowhere town. My baby hates being there cries his head off being held by both of them
Fil told my husband “you should’ve told me I would’ve watched him” when my husband said MY parents were going to be taking him for the night so I can rest while my husband went to work.
And I know FIL didn’t any to help he just wanted yo see my baby
Mind you he is never sober an alcoholic and MIL enables him.
So when he sees my baby all he does is sleep with him because he’s so drunk !
I told my husband his dad can’t be “watching” our baby if he isn’t sober. My husband stayed quiet it always starts a fight.
I honestly at this point hate both of them .
I’m glad we’re far from them because i know they won’t make any effort to visit not that I want them too.
And they’re also asking us to visit and now I can say no! I’m working taking care of my baby and doing things more important.
They’re empty nesters and Mil bought a dog to basically replace my baby since she can’t have access to him
She thought we were going to live with them for a much longer time
But I was like fuck no!
Anyways I’m done ranting I hate them 🙂
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I dont know… people who lost their parents young have kids all of the time that never meet their grandparents, and who are deceased and cannot help them out at all and everyone makes it work somehow. I don’t feel like grandparents are obligated to help or babysit at all. The emotional stuff such as detachment from your kids would be upsetting, I do see that.