So basically me and partner been together 11 years now, got 2 kids together and she has two of her own.
since the birth of our last child sex has probably dwindled down to maybe 1-2 times a month, sometimes less, which she said was down to her implant and no sex drive, which she still has in now, then about 6 months ago she’s found out she’s got a prolapsed womb.
Now I feel it’s just given her more of an excuse not to bother, there is no affection or intimacy or even a hint of a kiss/cuddle as she says it makes her feel sick.
She’s been to GP who said she has it but she has to see a specialist to get it sorted out, which she has shown no interest in doing whatsoever, so I’m now at the point where I’m looking online and the waiting list it’s saying is 73 weeks, but that’s after you’ve been diagnosed which can take up to 18 weeks or you pay privately which is about £300, I’ve not gone that long without since I was 16, am I just meant to accept that ? Or am being selfish for wanting to feel wanted.
I feel like my confidence is smashed to bits being rejected so many times. I’ve contemplated seeing a prostitute but again my confidence is all but gone, how can I overcome this ?
TL;DR partner doesn’t want sex anymore what are my options other than feeling sorry for myself, thanks.