Not helping HER! Helping HIM!

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FIL is on hospice care. Probably less than two weeks to live. Ive been doing all i can for him. JNMIL been telling people “OP has been such a big help to me!” (Once while laying her hand on my shoulder while i was sitting down. Gave me the heebi jeebies!)

Look lady. We aint friends, we aint close. Im helping him! If it helps you on the side, so be it. Im not gonna neglect him because of you. He has been like a father to me for 25 years. But I aint helping YOU!

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