My gf (F22) and I (M21) have been together for a year and there’s been some great moments but a lot of bad ones as well. Recently, my gf has been going out a lot late at night with her “friends”. She had made friends with this guy. (Let’s call him Liam) and I was already wary of him as he was liking all of her Instagram posts and highlights.
One day, she’s on her way to my house and she has to stop to help him because his motorcycle breaks down. I call to ask her if she’s still coming over but she sends me to voicemail all night from 6pm to 3 am and she would only respond to my texts once every few hours. I was pissed. One day, I check Liam’s instagram and I see a picture of her hand in his lap. She told me that he asked her to put it there, and she went ahead and did it. Later she switched up and said that the guy put her hand there instead. This story was so unbelievable it’s insane. It became harder to trust her especially because of a pattern she’s had with being truthful in the past.
A couple weeks later, she tells me that she’s going to cook with some of her some of her girls at her friends house. Let’s call her J. At this point, I had lost all trust in her so I decided to hire a private investigator. Yes I know it may be invasive but I needed to know the truth. The PI pulled up to her house and followed her. She never went to J’s house and it turns out she went to Liam’s house and he drove her car to a vape shop and then they went to a bar together. I put a stop to the whole operation. I called her and she sent me to voicemail but texted me saying that she was still with J. But I told her that was wrong and she was out with Liam. Then she switched up and said that she’s with Liam at J’s house but she had just left the bar. I told her we were done then she pulled up to my house begging and crying for me to stay but she still lied saying that she went to J’s house. She did admit to hanging out with Liam because I showed her the video evidence. She said it was wrong hanging out with him alone but she said she wasn’t doing anything and they were grabbing drinks. I was not okay with this and she knows this type of behavior isn’t something I’m okay with.
She also said that a couple other guy friends were gonna pull up to the bar but it didn’t happen because she had to leave the bar early due to a fight breaking out. She keeps saying that she loves me and nothing bad happened but it’s hard to believe her at this point. She refuses to cut the guy off too. She expects me to stay in the relationship while she maintains contact with the guy. I just don’t know how to process all of this
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My gf (F22) and I (M21) have been together for a year and there’s been some great moments but a lot of bad ones as well. Recently, my gf has been going out a lot late at night with her “friends”. She had made friends with this guy. (Let’s call him Liam) and I was already wary of him as he was liking all of her Instagram posts and highlights.
One day, she’s on her way to my house and she has to stop to help him because his motorcycle breaks down. I call to ask her if she’s still coming over but she sends me to voicemail all night from 6pm to 3 am and she would only respond to my texts once every few hours. I was pissed. One day, I check Liam’s instagram and I see a picture of her hand in his lap. She told me that he asked her to put it there, and she went ahead and did it. Later she switched up and said that the guy put her hand there instead. This story was so unbelievable it’s insane. It became harder to trust her especially because of a pattern she’s had with being truthful in the past.
A couple weeks later, she tells me that she’s going to cook with some of her some of her girls at her friends house. Let’s call her J. At this point, I had lost all trust in her so I decided to hire a private investigator. Yes I know it may be invasive but I needed to know the truth. The PI pulled up to her house and followed her. She never went to J’s house and it turns out she went to Liam’s house and he drove her car to a vape shop and then they went to a bar together. I put a stop to the whole operation. I called her and she sent me to voicemail but texted me saying that she was still with J. But I told her that was wrong and she was out with Liam. Then she switched up and said that she’s with Liam at J’s house but she had just left the bar. I told her we were done then she pulled up to my house begging and crying for me to stay but she still lied saying that she went to J’s house. She did admit to hanging out with Liam because I showed her the video evidence. She said it was wrong hanging out with him alone but she said she wasn’t doing anything and they were grabbing drinks. I was not okay with this and she knows this type of behavior isn’t something I’m okay with.
She also said that a couple other guy friends were gonna pull up to the bar but it didn’t happen because she had to leave the bar early due to a fight breaking out. She keeps saying that she loves me and nothing bad happened but it’s hard to believe her at this point. She refuses to cut the guy off too. She expects me to stay in the relationship while she maintains contact with the guy. I just don’t know how to process all of this
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Dump her and move on
The juice isn’t worth the squeeze
You’re young. Find someone you have full trust in and someone who reciprocates that trust. Also someone who communicates properly. You felt disrespected and lost all trust, so you ended it. Plain and simple. It will be better for your mental health not having to stress about what she is doing by not communicating. I think you did good and I believe you will believe that soon yourself. Best of luck to you my friend
Way too many red flags
Bro😭😭😭😭
Tell her, “Sorry, you already picked Liam over me. Good luck with him. Goodbye.” Then block
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