Ok so the scammer got my junk… what do I do now?

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Ok so I was chatting away on discord very horny looking for a playmate, as we tend to do, when I sent a text to a scammer who put up a post for a free “milking” session with a gooner mommy.

Anyways….(mild embarrassment from a lot of panic, and not the thing you were imagining lol) asked for my age and location, I said gave them my years and country. Then they said they couldn’t send spicy messages on discord and instead asked me to use telegram.

So I go to telegram, and they ask for a verification(Ik that should have been my first clue, but apparently not…), and they send me an image with someone doing a pose, I do it as well. And then they ask to see my thing, ya know, to rate it.

I proceed to send 2 pictures and messages. And ask for some back. Cause… yeah. Anyways, they then send me a screenshot with them poised to put my face and my thing on Facebook, under the guise of me trying to solicit some nudes.

Seeing this, I say that I “had used AI lmao”, and promptly proceed to delete the entire telegram chat and all the photos. I block them on telegram.

Then they send a message on my phone(they asked to share contacts earlier(another one, Ik), doing the basic scammer thing. I block them instantly, and the do the same on discord, while also reporting them.

How screwed am I?

Edit: Omg wow, that’s a lot of replies aha, I got work soon so I’ll get back to you all in a few hours. And thank you for the upvotes, even if it is for this topic lol

Edit 2: There’s too many comments for me to get to all of you but thank you for both the harsh words and practical advice.

Edit 3: I hope some people could at the very least get a really good laugh at my situation, or some practical advice if they have been a victim of any scam b4.

Comments

  1. MrDavieT Avatar

    Not very. Putting your face/nudes on the internet is NOT their intention.

    They intend to threaten you with it. The threat is what makes people pay up.

    Ignore it. Don’t do it again.

  2. Champagne-Of-Beers Avatar

    I always think to myself, How can people fall for such obvious scam shit? and then I read something like this.

    I think the bigger question you should be asking yourself is, do you reeeeeeally need to be having gooner mommy milking sessions with random dudes online?

  3. Zigor022 Avatar

    Only the people that knew you, know you, and will know you will care, if they see it. May get banned from a social media platform.

  4. PofanWasTaken Avatar

    Not at all, scammers like this will very rarely go trough with their threats of exposing you

    Pay nothing, either nothing happens, or someone will see your junk, and the earth will keep spinning

  5. midnight-shinobi Avatar

    Almost everyone who tries to move you off the original app (like Discord) to Telegram is running a scam. It’s classic. They always say they “can’t do something” there and need to switch platforms. Telegram is basically a breeding ground for scammers—it gives them more freedom to pull shady stuff like this.

    You’ve already done the right things by blocking and reporting them. Try not to panic too much—they rely on fear to manipulate you. Most of the time, they won’t actually post anything if they sense you’re not buying into it. Just stay calm and keep your stuff locked down. And next time, if someone asks to switch to Telegram? Big red flag.

  6. Helepoli Avatar

    Be proud of your junk and accept that the world might see it. If you want to REALLY nip it in the bud just make a post saying you got scammed and your junk may or may not appear on their feed. Move on with your life. Find a real person to exchange junk pics with.

  7. acakaacaka Avatar

    Go to youtube pleasantgreen.

  8. Public-Eagle6992 Avatar

    They most likely won’t post it since they won’t gain anything from that and it could get them in a lot more trouble than just threatening it and even if they did and someone you know saw it you could just deny it’s your dick

  9. bestnola Avatar

    I would recommend deleting your accounts on all mentioned apps and creating new ones that don’t appear to be tied to the old ones. It would be a bit of a hassle to share your new telegram, Facebook, and discord with your family/ friends but you could just say you were using a common password and got hacked.

  10. Khorvair Avatar

    life of a gooner

  11. Pannycakes666 Avatar

    Block and ignore. Never pay. You have a lot to learn over on r/scams.

  12. your-dad-ethan Avatar

    I hope you’ve learned a lesson through this experience…

  13. kiplar Avatar

    No one wants to see your chod dude, you’ll be fine. If by some crazy chance friends and family see it they’ll get over it quick. Otherwise it will be on some obscure groups fb page. Also, report those accounts.

  14. razorbacks3129 Avatar

    As we tend to do… no we do not

  15. Original1Thor Avatar

    Send the nudes to all your contacts and post them on all of your social media.

  16. probablymojito Avatar

    r/sextortion

    Block and ignore. Sending them money will NOT make them stop threatening you. Let me repeat: sending them money does NOTHING. They will milk you for every penny you have if you let them have the chance.

    Also maybe make better life decisions. No one wants to see your cock mate, apart from your partner.

  17. Next-East6189 Avatar

    I was in charge of a soldier in the army who was masturbating over Skype for a woman who was recording it. After doing
    This a few times she told him unless he gave her several hundred dollars she would send it to his family and friends on Facebook. He came to me when the extortion started and I told him to ignore it and block her. I told him to let his family know what happened in case she did send them videos. Thankfully that was the last he ever heard of her and she never followed through on her threats.

  18. MNJon Avatar

    That must be painful.

  19. Snackatron Avatar

    Just say it was AI generated. Problem solved

  20. InYeBooty Avatar

    Double down. Just send them more nudes. But not yours. Spam them for the rest of their days with junk that could plausibly be yours.

  21. Abbaddonhope Avatar

    Honestly. Whats the worse that can happen other than eventually someone close might recognize you. Honestly if it happened to me I’d call their bluff and block them. Then if my loved ones showed me pics of me in whatever compromising position i was, id ask why were they on that site in the first place. Then teach them about corn flakes. If someone i don’t know confronts me about it, id ask if they wanted a live demonstration. Then teach them about corn flakes. For any other situation their getting a filtered or unfiltered fuck off and a lecture about corn flakes.

  22. ImKindaHungry2 Avatar

    Lie and say that you were planning on starting an onlyfans and threaten to sue because that means potential lose of money.

    But seriously like others said just ignore and block

  23. zombrian666 Avatar

    “As we tend to do” lol

  24. Asshai Avatar

    Are you much older than 17? Would you pass as a 17 year old? If so, I’d go with “I lied about my age. I’m 17. Congrats you have child porn on your computer, you sure you wanna send that to anybody else genius?” then ignore them.

  25. rellerindos Avatar

    ure good bro they wont do shit. most of the time the scammers live overseas and they wont do shit. they just trying make a living scamming people. just remember their job is the scam not the “ill expose u”. ull be fine bro. keep doing ur pervy little thing hahaha

  26. Po-po-powerbomb Avatar

    They only try to blackmail people to send them money, and if you send it once they will never leave you, they’ll know you’re someone who they should keep threatening to milk (pun not intended) more money out of. The right thing to do is block them on any platform they can contact you.

    Now look, sending your face wasn’t smart, and sending your phone number was even less smart. I’m not trying to scare you but you need to know that they might try to find you on other platforms and social through your phone number, maybe threatening you with sending the pics to your friends or family. You should make all of your accounts private (Facebook, IG, everything) so they won’t be able to see your friends list. If they actually threaten you with it, you have to keep on blocking them, it won’t go away if you pay them.

    Stay safe next time and don’t send your face if you’re into sexting and this kind of stuff, especially not your info.

    Btw there’s a whole subreddit for it so you’re not alone. r/sextortion

    And worst case scenario which has probably a 1% chance of happening, someone might see your dick and it will be embarrassing at first but no one really cares and everyone will move on with their lives.

  27. TheWaeg Avatar

    You’re most likely fine. They can’t threaten you since they are blocked, so they probably aren’t going to waste their time spreading your photos when there isn’t any payoff for the effort.

    They might just to spite you but even then, so what?

  28. QuyT1 Avatar

    This is something called sextortion. Having gone through it, best thing to do is cut off all contact and don’t pay a dime. You’re just a client to them, so if you ignore them and don’t pay anything, they’ll leave you alone eventually. The chances of a leak are incredibly low, because their whole business relies on anonymity and not leaking to squeeze money out of people.

  29. phome83 Avatar

    How do people still keep falling for this shit lol.

    To answer your question, you’re fine. The scam runs on the bluff of a threat, if ignored they’ll just fade away.

  30. Fra06 Avatar

    >as we tend to do

    Speak for yourself bro please

  31. Murky-Science9030 Avatar

    Demand for random naked dudes with their dick out is fairly low. Other guys will just say to be more careful next. Very different if you were a girl, unfortunately

  32. AS_as-Master Avatar

    Make a compilation of 100 d*cks and send them.

  33. aspie_electrician Avatar

    Heh, I’d just reply with “good luck bud, my junk is already on the internet and all my friends know I do it already”

    All of this is true BTW.

  34. WolfsmaulVibes Avatar

    i believe if an alien race will ever try to deceive us, it will be through horniness

  35. Extension_Term_3455 Avatar

    Sextortion. Clear as day. Move on OP, this is not worth the stress. Too many innocent lives have been taken because of this. I wouldn’t be so concerned if ever my junk is all over the internet for everyone to see. We’ve all done some shitty, horny and dumb things at some point in our lives, but I wouldn’t let a d!ck pic ruin my entire life. There’s no shame in feeling frisky sometimes.

  36. ulookbeautifultoday Avatar

    Had this too, but i sent the junk of some random redditor, just didn’t respond after, nothing happened

  37. OriginalMandem Avatar

    They tried this with me once. I played along and then when they requested a photo of my Johnson, I sent a picture of the biggest, blackest (I’m not black) mahoosive schlong I could find on Google. Somehow they still didn’t notice and when they threatened to post it to all my contacts, I said “Go ahead, you’ll be doing me a favour”. THEN they twigged it wasn’t mine (duh) and absolutely lost their shit at me for wasting their time. I still have the screen caps somewhere. Funny AF

  38. Apprehensive_Lie_177 Avatar

    Pull an Uno reverse, make them pay you so you don’t share your nudes, yourself. /s

    Anyway, that sucks homie. Sorry it happened to you. Must be anxiety inducing. Hugs, you’ll get through this. 

  39. Liminal_Spaces87 Avatar

    I don’t really understand anything of what you wrote tbh

  40. johnnybravo1014 Avatar

    Never pay, if you do they know you’ll pay and they’ll keep milking you for more.

  41. wizardmage Avatar

    You’re fine I just wish you wrote this with more shame.

  42. kanicot Avatar

    stop gooning. get some help

  43. Sea-Management450 Avatar

    Something similar happened to me… I freaked out and blocked them even after they threatened me. Nothing happened after that so far as I know. Was nervous for some time but yeah. They gonna try extort you but honestly not worth feeding into. Like oh no, my dick on the internet. Who cares about dicks? So many of them online anyway who shares it willingly. Just my take.

  44. _pm_ur_tit_pics_pls_ Avatar

    As long as you didn’t show your face you have nothing to worry about.

    Even then, just beat them to the punch and post it yourself if they threaten you.

  45. misterclean101 Avatar

    I got caught in a similar scam but from Tinder to WhatsApp. Nothing happened in the end.

    They actually sent me a few nudes (probably stolen) so it went deeper.

  46. inter-ego Avatar

    Ignore, they are using scare tactics for money

  47. -maffu- Avatar

    In future, if someone asks to see your cock, tell them to come round and see it first hand.

  48. schmuck-2501 Avatar

    This is funny because it reminds me of when my mate got stung by a similar thing.

    He was apparently horny and joined a chat room with what he thought was a woman. He exposed his penis and face and the person hung up, the next day, our whole group of friends and him got added to a gc where my mate was blackmailed, he stood firm so the scammer sent a HD image of his cock and face. Safe to say we all had a good giggle about it, he’s alright after the initial embarrassment.

    I don’t know if the same will happen to you but worst case you may be abit embarrassed, shit happens.

  49. DifferentProblem5224 Avatar

    i think the ai response was smart

  50. IAMA_MAGIC_8BALL_AMA Avatar

    For next time, just find the nsfw part of twitter lol

  51. SquareCanSuckIt69 Avatar

    You couldn’t beat this out of me. You’re fine. They can send a pic of your junk to people, but it’s not that bad.

  52. PathologicalLiar_ Avatar

    As a sub and an exhibtionist, this is such a turn on.

    I’m sorry there’s really nothing you could do, chances are once you cut contact (including not even reading their messages), they’ll give it up and not go through with the threat.

  53. MAFFSEA Avatar

    You sent someone your nudes. 

    You dumb. 

  54. Life_Ad_994 Avatar

    I saw the pictures. Rated it 10/10

  55. Electric_R_evolution Avatar

    You’re fine. These scammers rely on people getting freaked out and paying “ransoms” to keep their information from being leaked. But if you just block them and don’t respond AT ALL, they give up and go on to the next poor guy (it’s more lucrative for them to just move on.)

  56. TheMightyBruhhh Avatar

    imma be honest, if i saw your dick or vagina, I’d forget about it within an hour. A drop of water in the milkyway nowadays. It feels bad duh but just ignore it and it’ll almost literally phase out of existence

  57. nautilicuss Avatar

    Copypasta material

  58. Vfrnut Avatar

    Who cares? You should just laugh and replied “ you think I would send my own pic on the web ?LOSER!!”

  59. lesshinged Avatar

    Happened to me once. They said if I don’t pay, they’ll send the pictures/videos to my family. I was scared but didn’t budge and blocked them. Later asked my mom for her Facebook credentials and found the clip in message requests 💀 my mom probably would’ve never checked there but I deleted it anyway. Also checked my dad’s and sister’s and it wasn’t there

  60. Eciepeci Avatar

    “I was chatting on discord, looking for a playmate, as we tend to do”
    No we don’t, you’re alone on this one mate.

    This is going to be another legendary post after cylinder, poop knife and CBAT

  61. DhanushRam2010 Avatar

    just ignore them they wont and cant do shit because everything theyre diing isillegal

  62. Happy_Concept_7381 Avatar

    Nothing will happen. If you dont pay them money or anything they ask for they just move on to next victim. They have no time dealing with you. Just dont answer or entertain them because they will keep writing you. Just ignore them and the personal  will go away.

    Its like, those people calling to try sell stuff will move on if they dont think you will buy stuff.

  63. BenignDeer21 Avatar

    How stupid do you have to be to fall for something like this? Smh

  64. hitherto_ex Avatar

    The somewhat odd thing to me is how common this situation is and the goal is for the scammer to “milk” you of your money, when legitimate means of getting gooner mommy milking type of content exist to take your money (ie onlyfans, strip chat sites etc.) Nothing wrong with paying for porn if it’s ethically sourced IMO

  65. MarcAlmond Avatar

    What if someone does see your dick? Really nothing big.

  66. Mccmangus Avatar

    Tell them you’re contacting a lawyer about sexual assault as they’ve solicited intimate photos under false pretenses for the purposes of extortion, inform them you’ve taken down their contact information and have saved a copy of the logs and that they’ll be hearing from your councel shortly.

    Using legal words makes people who profit off terrifying people go quiet real quick.

  67. DweZie Avatar

    This happened to me years ago. I was panicked for about 3 hours until i just replied “I don’t care everybody is sexually active and has seen a penis once in their life.” They answered with “But you will dishonor your family and bring shame to it.” I said “My mom has seen me naked when I was 5 and my dad too. Its not like i am gonna be embarassed. Its just a dick”

    This is what is remember atleast.

  68. Captcha_Imagination Avatar

    > How screwed am I?

    It’s not good.

    Even if you come out of this unscathed, the harsh reality is that you are the type of person who believes that there are “gooner mommy milk seshes” being distributed with no problems and no charge.

    It’s just a matter of time before you encounter financial and/or emotional ruin.

  69. TheOriginal_Omnipoek Avatar

    I had something similar happen to me a year and a half ago. I was freshly going through a divorce and getting into the dating scene. Saw a girl in tinder who had her Instagram handle in her bio. Messaged her, we started talking, wanted to video call but couldn’t do it through Instagram and wanted to use telegram. Turned out to be 2 dudes trying to scam me, threatened to share my nudes with my friends and family. I blocked them, deleted telegram, reported their account, and spent the rest of the week stressed out.

    But in the end, nothing happened.

  70. MasterOfLore Avatar

    Bro…easy fix: tell him you are a minor and what he has there is CP which could land him in a lot of trouble if you report it. He will shit his pants and delete

  71. TKG1607 Avatar

    Use r/sextortion guidelines

  72. AlecItz Avatar

    you are so fucking stupid. being this horny is an elected, self-inflicted curse. you are more of an ape than the rest of us

  73. T1m3Wizard Avatar

    Take the L.

  74. More_Standard_9789 Avatar

    Ask them if they’d like to subscribe to your OF account

  75. Br4tm4n Avatar

    Trust me, I am a stupid hornball who managed to be threatened like this TWICE, once on Discord once on Insta, and both times I ignored it and nothing happened. One person kept spamming me with calls from different numbers after, which sucked but I ignored them too and a week later I was free at last.

  76. Dekutr33 Avatar

    “Like we do”

    Speak for yourself lmao

  77. Kazutolove Avatar

    Just do the Pro Gamer move of telling them that if they leak or send the nudes to friends and family, that you will send the pictures yourself

  78. GimmeAGimmick619 Avatar

    Lol “like we do”.

  79. Leclowndu9315 Avatar

    MILKING SESSION HAHAAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH

  80. i-love-Ohio Avatar

    nothings gonna happen. And don’t send nudes in general, just bad. Go beat off and call it a night or get a s/o

  81. ApolloReads Avatar

    As soon as they are like, “I want a face pic to know what you look like”, the next thing they are gonna ask for is a dick pic.

  82. Thr1ll_C0sby Avatar

    Just laugh at them and call them g y disappointments for watching you c m. They will hate it. It’ll be hilarious.

    Similar happened. If they can’t get money. They won’t follow through if you aren’t scared of it.

  83. Weatherman1207 Avatar

    Bro just use pornhub like the rest of us

  84. Srapture Avatar

    Should be fine. You’re handling it perfectly, imo. Denied it was real and acted aloof, then just block everything. Perfect.

  85. abgry_krakow87 Avatar

    Just post your junk on reddit for all of us to see. We enjoy the show and you disarm the scammers all in one move.

  86. vashoom Avatar

    Every day we stray further from God’s light…

  87. eliisback Avatar

    don’t send a picture of your penis to anyone unless they ask for it and you’re proud of it. it WILL be shown to other people. usually guys are pretty protective of nudes from their girlfriends and wives and such, but women that i know all tell and show their female friends everything. and i mean everything.

    so even if this wasn’t a scammer, this is my advice. but either way, you’re probably good. they just wanted money

  88. Emperor_Malus Avatar

    I had the same thing happen to me like a year ago unfortunately, and the guy managed to grab $200 before I made an excuse to end the call and subsequently blocking the guy. I have since changed my insta name and have NOT accepted anyone I don’t know since, even those who appear harmless. Occasionally he does try to reblackmail me using my number, but I keep blocking instantly. (Instead of Discord to Telegram, it was solely Instagram, and then WhatsApp once I was forced to give my number after he revealed himself)

    So main lesson is to forget about it and ensure it NEVER happens again. Don’t get caught lacking, and if necessary beat that meat before talking to anyone you usually wouldn’t hit up 😂.

  89. SUBSCRIBE_LAZARBEAM Avatar

    I suffered a similar tale and the way to proceed is simple, ignore it. Don’t block or
    anything just ignore. They are scammers they want money not the legal hassle that can come from
    posting photos.