Overthinking being single

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Been single for 6 months, I just want a boyfriend again, I don’t miss my ex but I am absolutely pining for being in a relationship! To the extent that I am distracted by constant overthinking the matter!

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  1. Meg_Wants_A_Corgi Avatar

    I’m in exactly the same boat! Broke up six months ago and I just want to find my person. However, I don’t think our motivation is right. Don’t search, don’t pine. Reach out to friends, set up plans with your friends and family, choose a new hobby, start a new series. Be unapologetically you, someone amazing will see how amazing you are and if it’s right, it will feel easy. You are enough on your own and if you grab a random person to fill that void, you may introduce more heart ache. I believe in you, as I believe in myself. Our energy will bring the right person without searching. Be your own peace. 💓