I hate these types of parents, they don’t know what it does to their kid and just do it since it’s some kind of kink ig (fucking gross) I’ve been hearing them do it since I was 5 years old, FIVE. I didn’t know why I was touching my private parts, why was I doing that? I questioned myself until I reached the age 8 and I realized I had porn addiction because of them now. None of my friends introduced me to those stuff before but MY OWN PARENTS. but now I am 14, and you know where life gets to the lowest point and bam that porn addiction hits you and after that you feel absolutely disgusting and ashamed? Because I know my parents did that to me, I tried to stop but life got so shitty I just want to forget about reality. But now, my parents still do it sometimes (I still sleep with them cuz I am poor) I just cursed the fuck out of them in my heart, I flipped them off(secretly) after they do it. Sometimes I fantasize waking up, pushing my dad off my mom and screaming till their ears bleed. I love them I do but everytime they do it I can’t help but stare at them in hatred like let me grow up properly bro. I might have to talk about them about this sooner or later and no shit I’ll rage my ass off, get everything out of my chest and they’ll finally be AWARE of what they did to me.
Btw who ever read this thx :33 I can’t keep bottling this up so I thought here might be a safe place to get things off my chest. ❤️🩹
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At this point, it’s abuse, sweetheart. Tell a trusted adult.
Hi OP, do you have a trusted adult that you can talk to. Either a friend’s parent or a teacher? I understand you’re poor but that’s absolutely not ok for them to do that to you. Do you have anywhere else you can sleep in your place? Depending on where you live I’m pretty sure you can see a therapist through your school. So sorry that this has happened to you.
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I’m sorry you have to experience this. It is disgusting. As a parent myself to a 3 year old I could not imagine exposing him to this, let alone a young child and older. Your parents should be ashamed for exposing themselves to you (and possibly? your siblings). I do believe this is a form of abuse and I encourage you to reach out to someone you trust that can also help support you and provide you with available resources.
I do not know your parents, their temperaments etc. so i do not know if confronting them is the safest option for you.
Where abouts are you located? I can try and find some resources you may have access too.
Write a note ‘I can hear you having sex’ live it where they could see when going to school. They won’t question you but they will definitely be embarrassed and hope they stop.
Is this not a form of SA? You need to tell someone in your life about this.
Please tell a teacher or school counselor about this. This is sexual abuse and cannot continue.
CPS. Contact them and get to a safe space. I wish i had done this when i was in your situation.
Wait… they have sex in the same BED as you?
What the fuck?
I am a parent of teenagers. Trying to find a time and a place to have sex is a challenge. But we really try our best to make sure they don’t have trauma from hearing us!
I remember being about 9 or 10 and sick as a dog. I was also riddled with a reoccurring nightmare so I sought comfort by sleeping in my mom’s room. Just on the floor because I was too old to hop in the bed.
I lay there after being awakened by various noises, noises from my mom and her boyfriend visiting pound town.
I don’t remember how long I lay awake wishing for death. Eventually I just got up and went to the bathroom, thinking they would stop as they realized they woke me up.
When I returned to collect my blanket and pillows, he was still on top of her.
Yes I have trauma.
Have you ever talked to your parents about this?
Maybe they don’t know you can hear them…
This is a lot for you take in, I’m sure. Everyone here is concerned for you because this is sexual abuse. You are being sexually abused. Having sex in view of your minor children is morally reprehensible.
There is someone at your school who can help you. It might be a student counselor/guidance counselor, or a school nurse, or even just a teacher. I urge you to contact an adult, they can help you immediately.
I would tell an adult you trust or your counselor at school. This is absolutely NOT okay, and you should not be going through this no matter your financial status. Your parents are being really weird, and it is okay to speak up about it.
My mom did that with her partners (she had a lot of them) while we were sharing the same bed. This is not ok and I also felt the hatred you currently do. Never confronted her about it but as an adult, and even as a kid, I decided I would never do something as disgusting as that.
please tell a counselor at school. this counts as sexual abuse.
There is 0% chance this is real.
This happened to me my entire childhood. Some of my first memories are of my parents having loud sex in front of me. This is CSA. If you have a trusted adult, please consider reporting this. Or confront your parents. I did when I was younger but the impact this had on me has shaped sex for me in many ways unfortunately.
If it’s any consolation, I’m 27 now and I have beaten my porn addiction. I’m sorry this is happening to you. Your parents are sick and your anger is so justified. I just had a baby 1.5 years ago and I cried so many times because I can’t fathom EVER doing something like that to her. No sane parent does that.
I’m sorry to hear that. That’s really messed up.
My heart breaks for you. Your parents are selfish people who are not looking out for your well being. This is neglect, this is abuse, this is wrong on multiple levels. Please speak to a trust adult about this.
Their profile is one hour old. They may be farming karma.
The way he said it makes it sound like he’s sleeping in their bed yet at same time it sounds like he lives with them because he’s poor. He’s mad that he could hear his parents going at it.
It is wrong to have sex when the kid is in the bed with them. Obviously, we all know that.
But if he’s still living with his parents, then he should speak up and let them know he can hear them. Or be petty by bringing someone to his room and have loud sex and let them have their own taste of medicine.
Please reach out to any of these groups (assuming you’re in the states.
What’s happening to you is unfair and unsafe. This kind of behaviour is class as abuse. It’s particularly sad that you are already feeling the behavioural ramifications but don’t lose hope. You sound very self aware and just sharing this information is a form of empowerment.
Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline
https://www.childhelphotline.org
Call or text: 1-800-422-4453 (1-800-4-A-CHILD)
Child Protective Services (state by state info)
https://childcare.gov/consumer-education/child-protective-services
https://www.rainn.org
Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)
Im really sorry that you have to go threw this
OH MY GOD?! Op this is abuse, this is NOT normal
Tag this as NSFW btw
Hey man, please think about telling someone about this. The same thing happened to me and I thought it was just normal, but I’m an adult now and I’ve realized it’s wrong. I think it will get harder to talk about the older you get, because it becomes easier to invalidate your experience because you’re “not a kid anymore.” At least, that’s the struggle I’ve had (in my early 20s, currently)
This isn’t okay, no matter what anyone tells you. It’s unfortunately more common than some would like to think, and I need you to know that no matter what, it is not okay.
Uh, a 14 should absolutely not be sleeping in the same bed as their parents.
This is abuse.
How old are you? You are being sexually abused.
Oh yea this happened to me too when I was young and slept at times on same bed as parents. I woked up to noises my parents made and I saw my mom on top of my dad. I was confused as hell but somehow realised what they were doing. I just got up and went to sleep in my own room. I never forget it however. I don’t know if my parents reacted to me leaving in anyway. Was fucked up. Besides my parents has never been the most sane ones. I wonder if this was the reason why I had odd sexual behavior as a kid and cus of it my family made fun of me…to a kid they fucked up and did nothing about it! Lmao some people shouldn’t have kids at all.
You should probably call CPS.
I feel weird having sex with the cat in the same room. This is vile.
I’ve heard a similar story to this and the last post I saw, someone actively defended this shit. Unsurprisingly, that person turned out to be a pedophile. But there’s no realm in which this kind of behavior is acceptable. I’m a parent with an active sex life myself, but my wife and I don’t have sex until after our kids have gone to bed. We make sure to lock the door until we’re finished. It’s the responsible thing to do. Some people are just fucking disgusting and have no business being parents.
Very odd in modern times
Now I’m kinda glad that my parents made me sleep on the floor in the living room, I didn’t know that being poor could get any worse ngl
I’ve experienced the same thing. I’m so sorry, kid. At first I thought it was an adult who posted this, but you’re just a kid! This shouldn’t have happened to you! It’s NOT normal and sexual abuse like this is serious. Leaving home might be scary since everyone is telling you to call CPS. I agree with them kid…you don’t even have your own bed! And even if they were in another room, you hearing it would be enough to traumatize you. That happened to me. I’m 24 now and remember feeling the exact feelings you did. I’m so sorry. We believe in you.
Having sexual intercourse in the presence of minors is a documented form of CSA. It causes much the same kind of traumatic responses as direct physical CSA, but is far less punished because in the eyes of the law no physical harm was technically done, despite documented proof of the trauma it can cause.
Your parents were abusing you by doing this, and I highly suggest you seek out a trusted adult to inform about this so you can get the professional help you need. Reddit is not a qualified place to seek help for this kind of sexual trauma, you need to find a therapist who specializes in treating sexual trauma victims.
I lived in small quarters with my family growing up and would hear my parents all the time. I would be forced to stay in my room after bedtime even if I had to pee so they could go at it. They would even leave me In the bathtub unattended. I am so sorry you are going through this.
grrrrr im so angry grrrr
get a job lil bro
Shit my dog has walked in on me and she judged me really hard. I can’t even have the dog in the room.
I’m really sorry but they’re probably at least somewhat aware that you’re aware… I can’t imagine the kind trauma this puts a child through and I’m genuinely sorry this has skewed your perception of sex and yourself, with the guilt and shame. On another level, I can relate. You may want to talk to another trusted adult about this. It cannot continue to go on.
> since I was 5 years old, FIVE. I didn’t know why I was touching my private parts, why was I doing that?
I was doing the same at that age and I hadn’t seen a naked human being until I was 11…
As someone who came from a poor background and didn’t even had a proper house, I would say it’s okay…. Where do they do it otherwise? Or if your parents are open minded, tell your mom or dad whoever is close to you that this is a bit disturbing, and probably they’ll find a way out. This is my POV. Downvotes are welcome.
Your parents should be in jail. That is not normal or a kink.
My parents did this to me. It is a form of sexual assault. Tell a teacher or trusted adault. This is NOT okay to grow up with. I was in your same shoes at your age. Please tell someone you trust and get help
Yeah, this isn’t okay. I went through this, thankfully they didn’t do it in the same bed. Instead they would do it on the floor and would literally play music?? Anyways, if they’re still doing, either confront them or tell someone. Sorry you had to go through that. 🫂
That’s child abuse
What country is this?
I can unfortunately relate..
In our previous house we had only two rooms for my parents and grandparents so I used to sleep with my parents. And they used to have sex beside me. I was a deep sleeper. But once I woke up and they also noticed so they turned off the lights and i already saw it. And next time I stayed up to see what was happening and was also traumatized. I was so happy I got my room. I also got addicted to porn after that.
Just slowly tune it out. Slowly stop watching porn you’re still very young. If they are starting and you’re not asleep move a lot. Ik not very good advice but confronting them will just make the situation awkward as you don’t have anywhere else to go to sleep.
I’m just saying what I tried to do. But if you have a school counselor tell them all of this and it might work out well.
There was a girl i knew who was going through the same thing except it wasnt just her she had like 5 other siblings, also poor to a point where they lived in one room all 8 of them. Its definitely wrong and if they are gonna stop they wont do it from themselves, you have to express your disgust to them.