Partner doesn’t believe I get harrassed sometimes

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Last night, I was chased into my apartment by a drunk guy while my partner was asleep inside. When I told him about it this morning, he accused me of lying about that and every other bit of harassment I’ve ever faced, because “that doesn’t happen when you’re with me, I’ve never seen it.”

Dude, that’s the entire fucking point. Creepy people and aggro jerks tend to harass people – particularly femme people – when they’re alone.

He’s normally so understanding but I am fucking SHOOK by this development.

Comments

  1. Distinct-Brilliant73 Avatar

    Throw it back on him next time. Babe, you NEVER get hit on when you’re with me, it must never happen ever!! Well it never happens with me, so therefore, it never happens period!! Yay, it’s so nice not having to worry about a significant other when they go out.

    I’d be petty about it until he admits his stupidity or continues to show his true colors. If he doubles down, he can do so single.

  2. darlingbabybat Avatar

    This guy is not on your side. He doesn’t even believe your words. That’s a sad state for a relationship.

  3. Tremenda-Carucha Avatar

    It’s like he thinks we’re immune to creeps just because we’re with him. Really?

  4. berryplum Avatar

    what an odd thing to say

  5. kasperred Avatar

    That is not a partner … partners don’t call you a liar when speaking your truth

  6. Outside_Memory5703 Avatar

    He knows. He just doesn’t want to have to deal with it. You’re bothering him