Partner tells you to try it in the butt before they do it

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Surely I am not the only other person here who has had a partner tell them to shove something up their butt when asked to do anal.

I did the deed, with a plug. Needless to say, she right, it hurts but not unbearable.

and no, she doesn’t know. I’m 31M straight

Comments

  1. Spiritual_Jury6509 Avatar

    Don’t talk the talk if you can’t walk the walk. Respect.

  2. MayaIsSunshine Avatar

    You should tell her. Let it be a bonding experience. 

  3. ThatPre-kTeacher Avatar

    dude this is like your fifth post give it a rest

  4. Puzzled_Spinach7023 Avatar

    Good for you. Now see if she’ll use the plug.

  5. Candid_Operation2516 Avatar

    Done it myself, I fucked my GF with a plug in my ass to show her I’m willing to try it if she is willing….compromise with each other helps spice things up

  6. Dry_Candle_Stick Avatar

    If you want to try anal ask, if she says yes then she preps takes about an hour, then you eat the coochie off the bone, flood warnings should be issued, then you do the same to the booty, then you lube up and play with the tip and her entrance whilst playing with her clit, then you slide in, go slow for a bit she’ll nut, then kick it up a gear. Have fun 🙂

  7. DavRodz3 Avatar

    Search online because you can find a lot of instruction on how to do it right. If you do it correctly and don’t rush it, it can be super hot and you will come like a pornstar. But it takes a partner who is patient.

  8. beansakokoa Avatar

    she has no prostate so there’s not really a pleasure incentive dawg

  9. JackDanulsPrime Avatar

    Should have let her peg you. Might be a way to spice things up.

  10. Imaginary_Corner_393 Avatar

    Meh it’s fine just lube it up and chew it up

  11. HomadeDad Avatar

    If you’re not going to tell her, then what was the point. Get her involved so you can enjoy it together and get to take your turn as well.

  12. AlmondMilkMaybe Avatar

    How large was the plug? Imo, it would need to be dick-sized (comparable to your own).

  13. Pin_Well-Worn657 Avatar

    I’m not gonna lie, this situation reminds me of a time I was in a relationship where my partner suggested something similar. At first, I was really nervous about the idea. I mean, it wasn’t something I ever thought about doing before, and I wasn’t sure how to approach it. But after talking it through with my partner and understanding it wasn’t about pressure or anything—just a curiosity—I decided to give it a try, just to see how I felt. Honestly, I was surprised at how open and comfortable the conversation was. Sometimes relationships involve stepping out of your comfort zone, but only if it’s something you’re okay with and willing to try.

    It definitely wasn’t a ‘one-size-fits-all’ experience, and I can totally understand if it’s not something people would want to try. Everyone’s different, and what works for one person doesn’t work for another. What matters most is communication and making sure both people are on the same page. If you’re not comfortable, don’t do it. It’s always okay to set boundaries, and I think that’s something everyone should remember.

  14. TheManSaidSo Avatar

     Boy got his booty popped to pop some booty. You’re doing it all wrong.

  15. Several_Beginning533 Avatar

    Are you looking for a specific reply bro? Itself your 5th post.
    You go king
    Slay king
    Yeah you can do it

    Anything i can add, to put your mind at ease?

  16. Crafty_Tree4475 Avatar

    Use some lube not a big deal.

  17. Killjoy-1138 Avatar

    I’ve tried it before with one of my exes (and a couple guys). If they’re on the smaller side they’re okay. Obviously the bigger they are the more it’ll hurt to the uninitiated

  18. TotalFactor6778 Avatar

    Let yourself enjoy it. And let her in on it, too.

  19. Squid989732 Avatar

    I told my ex that I would. Called her bluff but she didn’t go through with it.

  20. Vivid_Meringue1310 Avatar

    How many times is bro gonna post this shit lmao

  21. kelpingfreindlywook Avatar

    I just don’t get the point of being a straight man if you want Anal. Yeah it’s tighter but it’s messy and disgusting no matter how clean the girl is. My ex really pushed for it and she didn’t even eat for 2 days before and I wound up with some weird white poop on me and it was gross. Like there are tons of dudes that want you to put it in their butt why are you trying to pressure you girl into doing that when she has a perfectly good vagina. Vaginas give life and butts give poop.

  22. CactusPatch057 Avatar

    When we first talked about anal, many years ago, she wasn’t sure but said she’d always wanted to peg a guy, so she would if I would. I was 100% game. We’ve had a lot of fun since and she loves anal now

  23. Historical-Region911 Avatar

    A plug is way different than doing it with motion…. I mean you said “it hurt but not unbearable “ so were you planning on putting it inside of her just to stay still? If so cool but you absolutely cannot say you fully understand anal now because you used a plug.

  24. Discarded042424 Avatar

    Lmao 🤣 GAY!!!!!!! Nah I’m playing ti each there own. But I don’t like putting it in my partners anal either that shining is nasty

  25. MAGALDM2025 Avatar

    My wife said she’ll do it after she does it to me.

    I responded with that’s fair.

    She said that’s not how I was supposed to react!

    😬

  26. Hausgod29 Avatar

    She should know, beyond that being your partner go get yous some ass.

  27. MulberryWine88 Avatar

    I didn’t have to do that. I ate her ass a few times, she loved it. I didn’t actually much anal, I think she brought it up. If it’s all prepped and ready shouldn’t hurt. Occasionally it does so and we go from there depending.

  28. trumpsmellslikcheese Avatar

    I mean this is why I’ve never asked any woman I’ve been with (including my wife) to do anal. I know for a fact that I don’t want anything in my ass, so I have zero desire to put something in hers.

    I get it, there may be something one or both of us might be missing out on if done right. I’m totally fine with that.

  29. roentgen_nos Avatar

    That could backfire.

  30. vbpoweredwindmill Avatar

    Lol prep first. Butt stuff is generally more enjoyable for men than women.

    You’re not a bull at a gate, gradually does it.

  31. CankerLord Avatar

    >it hurts but not unbearable

    More lube.

  32. zootedboofey Avatar

    Get the clone a willy kit. Make a mold of your own manhood.

  33. Classic_War_7910 Avatar

    Was it 3 pronged or 4 pronged?

  34. D_bAg_Tr0LL Avatar

    My girl likes it in the butt hole. I however do not.

  35. KindWordInPassing Avatar

    😟I get Pegged by Christianity but it’s more like stone throwing, as it puts you to sleep. A lot like how a Roman spear to a closeted “GAY” person feels like mercy.

  36. OO-2-FREE Avatar

    Danger Will Robinson, that creep Dr Smith is sneaking up behind you!

  37. DeepTadpole3652 Avatar

    Had a gal told me I could fuck her in the ass if I let her use her toy on mine.

    Boy howdy did that back fire on her!!

    I was 19, a freshly minted marine, and very inexperienced.

    She gets that thing up there, gently and lubricated. Little snug, didn’t feel awful. Turns the vibrator on, gets my prostate massaged and bam, I blow my load. feels good man

    Well unbeknownst to me, removal, if done quickly can result in… splattering.

    She was easing it out as I decided to shimmy forwards.

    She got my lunch on her tits and her face.

    I was embarrassed for a split second. Then couldn’t stop laughing. She didn’t call me for a week.

    We’ve been married now for 17 years. I tell this story at least once a year at our July 4th party, she still gets embarrassed to this day.

  38. theyawninglaborer Avatar

    It wasn’t a bet bro, she just doesn’t want to do it.

  39. Ngilles001 Avatar

    Well if they didn’t see it, it didn’t happen.

  40. xXSillyHoboXx Avatar

    Exactly!

    Kinda like being a good manager. Don’t always ask those you manage to do the dirty work if you’re not willing to show them you’ll do it too.

  41. yairrrrrrrrrrr Avatar
  42. hobbitshavefeeling2 Avatar

    I’ll do it if you do it.

  43. RemiLeeHardy Avatar

    My exhusband used to have this request all the time too. He literally told me, “but it feels good for women.”

    I told him nope. Its actually the exact opposite. It’d only feel good for men. Because their gspot can be touched through the anus. A spot near the prostate.

  44. Zala-Sancho Avatar

    Had an ex try that.

    I’ll never push for anal again

  45. Jonminustheh Avatar

    Hahaha I did this same thing in my 20’s with anal beads. In front of her. Actually she put them in. Wasn’t too bad, but wasn’t great. Never reciprocated.

  46. saltofthearth2015 Avatar

    You WERE 31 m straight.

  47. Glyde-N-Slyde Avatar

    She will be pegging you and dominating you by next month. lmao

  48. throwaway-frog420 Avatar

    Done it! Loved it! 🤣 literally have had a vibrator in my butt while she rode me. She could feel the vibrations through my dick

  49. DaniDontYouKnow Avatar

    ANAL EASE FOLKS. ANAL. EASE. best lube out there BUT if you’re gonna use it with your partner, make sure you wear a rubber or your dick is gonna go numb

  50. DrSlingblade Avatar

    My girl ain’t concerned with whether or not I put anything in there. I ask, I receive. She’s a good woman though, sounds like you got cucked bro

  51. Sea-Siren- Avatar

    I’ve always told the men I’ve dated. I have no interest in giving or receiving. But if I’m going to take it so are you. You first.

  52. Ok-Conversation4933 Avatar

    Some women enjoy it some don’t. Why would you want to pressure her into doing something she won’t enjoy. Maybe she would like to take a strapon to you. Would you be ok with doing something painful, but bareable?

  53. Soundo0owave Avatar

    Until you get your prostate massage, you have no idea the pleasure this bring. Male approved

  54. kuriT9 Avatar

    Id be hyped, asking to get pegged is hard but since it’s their idea…

  55. Flaky-Ambassador467 Avatar

    She doesn’t know what? lol seems like she knew the whole game.

  56. ShmoolieSlinger Avatar

    My ex said the same thing, I told her I’d let her peg me. She was bluffing. (I was too)

  57. hotchocbimbo Avatar

    I did said this to my bf and he actually did it haha it’s the only way they’ll understand you really have to take your time and be gentle

  58. ZeroCool-460 Avatar

    You motherfuckers need Jesus