When a person speaks and it’s just 100% negativity. I will immediately start avoiding them because that person will be a black hole for my joy.
I just recently was thinking about pursuing a friendship with a girl I worked with, but then she called me one day and spent 3 solid hours complaining about work and every soul she worked with. I ended the call and never reached out again. That’s gonna be a “no” from me dawg.
I don’t like people to touch me. Sometimes I mention this to someone af work and their immediate response is ,”oh you mean like this?” Anyone who deliberately violates a stated boundary is untrustworthy to me
Not being able to talk calmly even if we disagree i grew up in a household were my parents constantly yelled at each other. If we have a disagreement and u need to raise ur voice ur not for me everyone gets angry of course but theres no need to get to that level especially if we have children around
On those Facebook/insta posts that are like, “choose 2 things you’d rather have” and people choose to have free alcohol or weed over rent, gas, and groceries
Friends who have to outdo everything you have by buying some more expensive version so they could constantly point out ‘Oh, I forgot you just had the basic one, ours has every possible upgrade plus some customised features’.
Had to ditch a formerly life long friend over this.
She never did anything or bought anything until we did so she could buy a better one. Even if they were things she didn’t want or need.
Every phone call was ‘Oh, btw, you know that new thing your husband gave you for Christmas, I just bought one that cost ten times as much and it was sooo worth it. It’s just so much better than yours it’s unbelievable.’
For me, it’s a lot different because I’m totally blind and have been since birth, so I come by this information a lot differently. I rely on tone and touch. I get the vibe eventually, but it takes a bit longer. It’s not instantaneous.
Adults that are still into Harry Potter. Don’t get me wrong, as a millennial I’m surrounded by nerd shit from my childhood. HP is mid at best and jkr is a piece of shit. We get it you read a book series, but if your quirk actively supports oppression you can miss me with that
I think a red flag is something usually rectangular in shape, but could also be a triangle. HAS TO BE RED. Usually held up by a stick or pole. Sometimes it has writing on it like a sports team or a country’s state or national seal.
The most important thing you need to know about a person you can know just by observing them for a while: how they relate to others, whether they have a sense of humor, if they have a temper or if they have some other mental or emotional issues such as narcissist traits, overly-sensitive, anxious etc.
As far as red flags go, the one to look for imo is empathy or lack thereof. Lack of empathy is not something you learn or grow into. IMO, you either got it or you don’t. And if you don’t, I don’t want to be involved with you beyond what I have to be.
A red flag is a piece of fabric dyed red. It is often manufactured of polyester for durability, typically rectangular in shape, and may include grommets for easy hanging.
Some nations such as Albania, China, and Morocco use a solid red flag which includes a national insignia.
Unfocused eyes. When your girlfriend has normal times when eyes are all okay, but then when a mood change occurs, or anger takes over as example if the eyes go out of focus, it’s a red flag.
I am no psychologist but this is purely from my anecdotal experience. When I noticed this in my previous relationship if I ran a thousand miles away, I would have been much more successful today. You know what I am getting at. She turned out to be psychotic, never wanted to consult a psychologist, didn’t want me to work because there “maybe” women there, and etc, etc, and a thousand more etc’s. She was my ex-wife.
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People who walk loudly.
The Albanian flag
Not caring about other people.
A flag that’s red
rude to other people (waiters, security gurads, drivers, etc.)
This question is being asked here at least once an hour and dozens times everyday, The red flag is asking that question
Always trying to be right
When the person has anger issues and overly sensitive
Excessively emotional especially in men
If somebody is consistently involved in shit yet that shit is somehow never their fault.
Too much jealousy. Can be very annoying and relationship destroying. A little bit is fine and cute sometimes.
Someone who expects to be treated with understanding without any understanding of their own.
leaving their ex for you – learned my lesson 🫡
First date… doesn’t put the phone down.
Have a real conversation with the person sitting in front of you, and is paying for your dinner.
I’m so glad that I’m out of the dating pool. Smartphones ruined the experience.
Posting the same shit over and over again on a subreddit… huge red flag
Someone who puts a product back on a random shelf and not where they got it.
Literal red flags. Why the hell are they so red these days?
Going through your socials and reprimanding you like a parent for following friends of yours that they don’t like and yelling at you to block them
When a person speaks and it’s just 100% negativity. I will immediately start avoiding them because that person will be a black hole for my joy.
I just recently was thinking about pursuing a friendship with a girl I worked with, but then she called me one day and spent 3 solid hours complaining about work and every soul she worked with. I ended the call and never reached out again. That’s gonna be a “no” from me dawg.
Angry about anything. Dismissive. Negative energy.
That push your little boundaries
When you tell them to stop doing something they listen at first but then try to push further again to see how much they can get away with
The flag of China is pretty red
Having kids, wanting kids, having a big house/fancy car, wanting a big house/fancy car, sitting around a lot, keeping the TV on.
(Edit: Not that any of that makes you a bad person, of course. It just indicates that you’re probably the opposite of what I’m looking for.)
A rectangular piece of scarlet textile fixed to a rod or shaft of some sort.
MAGAt merch
Being named Lee.
I don’t like people to touch me. Sometimes I mention this to someone af work and their immediate response is ,”oh you mean like this?” Anyone who deliberately violates a stated boundary is untrustworthy to me
Lack of basic manners. It’s cost nothing to be a decent person.
Don’t go in the water
Rude to someone who provides a service. (Of course if there wasnt a reason. Service people give attitudes too)
Listening to country
Not being able to talk calmly even if we disagree i grew up in a household were my parents constantly yelled at each other. If we have a disagreement and u need to raise ur voice ur not for me everyone gets angry of course but theres no need to get to that level especially if we have children around
– can’t hold a conversation without alcohol
– they don’t ask you half a question
– hot and cold behaviour
Being rude to other people is not a red flag, is a character flaw.
When a flag is the color red.
USSR flag
If they have a secret murder room in their basement. Anything else is fine tho
Bigot.
If someone’s phone screen is cracked and always on low battery.
I see your phone as analogous to the way you run your life.
Weird one – but when someone on a dating app sends me an emoji as a greeting.
Switzerland flag without the white cross.
People who dont use their manners & people who dont like animals, I mean the ones that go out of their way to treat animals unkindly.
On those Facebook/insta posts that are like, “choose 2 things you’d rather have” and people choose to have free alcohol or weed over rent, gas, and groceries
Friends who have to outdo everything you have by buying some more expensive version so they could constantly point out ‘Oh, I forgot you just had the basic one, ours has every possible upgrade plus some customised features’.
Had to ditch a formerly life long friend over this.
She never did anything or bought anything until we did so she could buy a better one. Even if they were things she didn’t want or need.
Every phone call was ‘Oh, btw, you know that new thing your husband gave you for Christmas, I just bought one that cost ten times as much and it was sooo worth it. It’s just so much better than yours it’s unbelievable.’
When they’re trying too hard to convince you what a good person they are. i.e. What are they trying to hide?
When people are not patient to those who just got their first day on the job.
Being unable to back down, cool down from a heated discussion/argument. Especially adults.
Probably the Chinese or Vietnam flag. Those come to mind
If my dog doesn’t like you, that’s a complete wrap. It would be so out of character – you’d have to be a sicko for real.
Not respecting boundaries
This is reddit. Everything is a red flag to somebody here.
2 party system. the UK has 393 registered parties.
Usually it’s a square, or rectangle, sometimes a triangle. And if it’s on a pole or stick it’s even better. And it has to be red
A flag that is of red color. 🚩
if they say “my ex was crazy” but somehow all their exes were crazy… babe no, it’s you x
Lack of communication
I’d say the Chinese flag, or maybe the old Soviet flag.
For me, it’s a lot different because I’m totally blind and have been since birth, so I come by this information a lot differently. I rely on tone and touch. I get the vibe eventually, but it takes a bit longer. It’s not instantaneous.
China ofcourse 🇨🇳.
People who can’t handle stress well. Dont want to date/marry someone who flips out and gets angry the second something doesn’t go their way
Red ball caps
Communist banners tend to be huge red flags.
How does such a question get past the mods?
Edit: FO
Facing your phone down every time (even tho I do that shit too LMAO)
Doesn’t return the shopping cart to a cart corral.
Adults that are still into Harry Potter. Don’t get me wrong, as a millennial I’m surrounded by nerd shit from my childhood. HP is mid at best and jkr is a piece of shit. We get it you read a book series, but if your quirk actively supports oppression you can miss me with that
I mean if its a red sheet on a pole flapping around in the wind… I sure would call that a red flag.
One that says Trump on it. I automatically think “moron. Racist”
People who post on Reddit.
Fake people.
Basically you can be someone with me, the be another with someone.
Makes you feel you interact with me because you want something from me.
They’re manipulative.
Being MAGA is number 1 for me
I think a red flag is something usually rectangular in shape, but could also be a triangle. HAS TO BE RED. Usually held up by a stick or pole. Sometimes it has writing on it like a sports team or a country’s state or national seal.
The most important thing you need to know about a person you can know just by observing them for a while: how they relate to others, whether they have a sense of humor, if they have a temper or if they have some other mental or emotional issues such as narcissist traits, overly-sensitive, anxious etc.
As far as red flags go, the one to look for imo is empathy or lack thereof. Lack of empathy is not something you learn or grow into. IMO, you either got it or you don’t. And if you don’t, I don’t want to be involved with you beyond what I have to be.
A red flag is a piece of fabric dyed red. It is often manufactured of polyester for durability, typically rectangular in shape, and may include grommets for easy hanging.
Some nations such as Albania, China, and Morocco use a solid red flag which includes a national insignia.
People that make up fake stories on Reddit
There is a variety.
Soviet flag.
when i feel like i can’t be authentic around them bc of judgement
Turkey’s national flag is pretty red
Albania
Republican
Confederate, Nazi, and, Russian flags.
Oh, and red hats
People who use humor to mask saying mean things
If in conversation, a person only speaks about themselves. Everything is a segue back to them.
Anyone who is mean to children. That is a very big red flag for me.
Lack of any type of empathy
If they don’t like animals and don’t care about animal welfare.
People that don’t like dogs or pets in general. Bye Felicia.
They have no friends other than their own family members.
Unfocused eyes. When your girlfriend has normal times when eyes are all okay, but then when a mood change occurs, or anger takes over as example if the eyes go out of focus, it’s a red flag.
I am no psychologist but this is purely from my anecdotal experience. When I noticed this in my previous relationship if I ran a thousand miles away, I would have been much more successful today. You know what I am getting at. She turned out to be psychotic, never wanted to consult a psychologist, didn’t want me to work because there “maybe” women there, and etc, etc, and a thousand more etc’s. She was my ex-wife.
If he is a reddit user
Me. I’m a walking red flag right now.
Announce that they are a Christian the moment you meet them.
If you still support Trump. Fascist little cult member.
Excessive impatience
Early onset boomer brain
A Reddit account.
Somebody never accepting responsibility or owning up whenever they wrong.
Always want to be right, arrogant, proud, condescending.
Not having any hobbies.
I was cheating on my deaf girl with another deaf girl and found them arguing, so I turned off the lights at the main switch
Being too agreeable. If you’re a yes-man, you’re a liar.
Shouting
china is the most red flag?
China
Smoking
Anyone who overly flatters you for no reason. They want something from you
switzerland
The race or session is stopped, all bikes or race cars must return to the pits
being on reddit tbh
Their reaction to being told no
Dirty finger nails on a date. If they can’t keep that clean, what other body parts can’t they keep clean?
The Chinese flag. The Alabama Crimson Tide flag. Any other flag if you bleed on it enough.
To me the biggest of all is people who mistreat animals.
I would answer, but I’m an ostrich of reddit.
People that hate pineapple on pizza