I’d say I’m at a solid 2-3 times a week. My spouse and I go through phases of more or less. After 10 years together, it’s a super important part of our relationship and how we communicate/bond/relax together.
I enjoy it. I love my girlfriend and she loves me and we find comfort and joy and love in the act. It brings us closer together. Why wouldn’t we do it often?
I’m married and very attracted to wife. Kind of easy to be motivated, whenever the kids are sleeping and we have time to ourselves, we just kind of know—between body language and just awareness of the other person’s day—if it’s going down or not. But motivation is not an issue, IMO, it’s a) genuinely being attracted to your partner and b) having a healthy, baseline sex drive that’s aligned with your partner. If a couple doesn’t like to have sex that often but spends QT together in their own ways and gets intimate once in a while… what’s the harm in that?
My coochie is absolutely a ravenous insatiable monstrosity that is only getting hungrier with age?
My spouse is good with like twice a week, tops.
So my toybox is impressive, lol.
Take my mind off of whatever for 20-30 minutes. Enjoy a more relaxing day afterwards. Validation for helping/making my partner orgasm. Some form of exercise. General intimacy before and after.
Love and desire. If you love your SO like I did with my ex… and if she shows her desire and love to you too and everything goes well between you both… you enjoy sex then. It’s one special when you share a moment together and it opens a intimate connection during and after
Working out helps. I guess it depends, but for me I love the ego boost when a woman is wet and squirmy at what I’m doing. Extreme low self esteem makes me fuck a lot and really good so I feel worthy. Same with work.
My dick, it’s very large and in charge lol. I posted it on my reddit for a bit of fun recently, the thousands of upvotes and messages was a bit shocking 😅
I’m 33 and we do average around 2-3 times a week. Sometimes more. We’ve been together for 5 years now and the sex is still amazing. It brings us closer together. It feels great. We are both very attracted to each other. We are two women, I don’t know if that matters in the equation but I’ll just add that.
I am horny. I forget all the shitty things around me when I have sex, it’s like a drug to forgetting. I actually don’t know how people who can have sex every day, dont have it…
It’s not about motivation. It’s just having the time. There are weeks my husband and I just aren’t up for it at all – work is busy, we’re tired, etc. But then there are weeks where those problems don’t exist and we just went to fuck 🤷♀️ and those weeks it’s 3-4 times, if not more.
My wife started working out more and felt more confident. Then I asked her to start posting NSFW content here on reddit. That’s been very kinky and for the last few months we’ve been fucking 14 times a week on average! We also chat with people and share more pics of her in our DMs, so it keeps the flame burning during the day!
Hard to name a average, as I see my partners in very irregular intervals – it could be that one stays for a weekend, or up to 3 weeks, but then with some it can also be 2 months in between. Still, when we meet, it’s typically 2-3 times a day for the duration of the stay.
3 times a week I would consider a low amount of sex.
I don’t know what particular thing should motivate me. Sex seems like a pretty basic drive to me. It’s fun, so I have as much as I can. But also each of my partners is very different, so maybe that also keeps it fresh.
Wait. People are actually having sex? My girl wont even let me fondle with her breasts because it now makes her feel like I just treat her like an object. I’m confused because it wasn’t like this in the beginning and I haven’t thought of her any less or treated her any worse.
I’m 39 and would probably have sex with my partner on average 7 or more tines a week, but I broke my knee and trapped a nerve in my pelvis so it’s like a struggle for once a week atm 😬
It plays a pretty big role in keeping my partner happy and healthy. Sex in a relationship is like the bathroom of a house. It’s not the main reason I’d buy a house, but if I bought a house that didn’t have a bathroom, I’d go insane.
Currently in a bit of a honeymoon stage with my girlfriend. We both enjoy sex, and like making each other feel good. The chemistry is awesome, and a lot of it is based on mutual support, affirmation, and communication.
It’s been 12 months of this, and it doesn’t seem to be slowing down.
We work out together everyday and have at least one date night a week.
Yes we have kids and we find a way to make time to be Mr and Mrs instead of mom and dad
Because of that the sex life remains pretty awesome
I do love my wife and I do love her a tiny bit more every day – I think she is the hottest, sweetest and best being besides my kids on this planet and I learned that even thinking about her turns me on if I want to. Pretty good motivation for me 😀
Haha, Just taking my toilet break and stumbled across this. I’m coming 50, my wife of 16 years (41 years old) who was never very sexually active got cancer last year, she is recovering amazing and has found an appetite for sex, she is beautiful, amazing and sexy as hell.
The only motivation I need is seeing her lick her lips and give me the look.
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Unfortunately those kinds of people probably will never see this question. They’re too busy being motivational and fucking every other day.
I enjoy sex?
I don’t understand people who don’t enjoy sex. A friend of mine is stuck in a sexless marriage and I feel awful for him.
I like sex. It’s the same for everything I really like. Thankfully sex is one of the healthiest things I like so why cut back?
Remembering everything sexual in the bed that we didn’t do, because we didn’t have the experience to know.
I’d say I’m at a solid 2-3 times a week. My spouse and I go through phases of more or less. After 10 years together, it’s a super important part of our relationship and how we communicate/bond/relax together.
Also orgasms are pretty rad.
Cumming and sexual enjoyment
Enjoyment
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I enjoy it. I love my girlfriend and she loves me and we find comfort and joy and love in the act. It brings us closer together. Why wouldn’t we do it often?
My husband’s penis
Decent amounts of steroids keep my sex drive through the roof lol. Still try to have sex at least twice a day at 35.
Having sex like 3 times a day most days. Just find something new and exciting to do. Exploring new things together.
Deez nutz.
Trt. I became a 18 yr old again. Wife loves it.
I’m married and very attracted to wife. Kind of easy to be motivated, whenever the kids are sleeping and we have time to ourselves, we just kind of know—between body language and just awareness of the other person’s day—if it’s going down or not. But motivation is not an issue, IMO, it’s a) genuinely being attracted to your partner and b) having a healthy, baseline sex drive that’s aligned with your partner. If a couple doesn’t like to have sex that often but spends QT together in their own ways and gets intimate once in a while… what’s the harm in that?
My wife.
It gets so much better with age. We know what we like, and we’re pretty good at figuring out what you’d like.
You need motivation to have sex?
As noone’s said it yet…perimenopause! Men, when your wife hits 40, buckle up!!
Uhhh. Attraction and love
still active like a teenager
Drugs…lol
My coochie is absolutely a ravenous insatiable monstrosity that is only getting hungrier with age?
My spouse is good with like twice a week, tops.
So my toybox is impressive, lol.
My bodily impulses motivate me.
Also…
Take my mind off of whatever for 20-30 minutes. Enjoy a more relaxing day afterwards. Validation for helping/making my partner orgasm. Some form of exercise. General intimacy before and after.
My wife is sexy and we like each other.
Probably back pain we”re just trying to knock it back into place
Just turned 30 recently and have had more libido then I had in my 20s. I’m a woman. I don’t understand it, but my husband is happy. Lol
My penis. My penis motivates me.
My wife’s boobs in my mouth.
Primal instinct. Dat ass.
I’m 21 now but I really hope at 30 I’ll have a husband with a phat mustache to ride. That’ll keep me motivated
Love and desire. If you love your SO like I did with my ex… and if she shows her desire and love to you too and everything goes well between you both… you enjoy sex then. It’s one special when you share a moment together and it opens a intimate connection during and after
Working out helps. I guess it depends, but for me I love the ego boost when a woman is wet and squirmy at what I’m doing. Extreme low self esteem makes me fuck a lot and really good so I feel worthy. Same with work.
My partner and I enjoy each others body’s
3 times per week!? My partner and I only had sex 3 times last year!
A partner who makes me feel heard, appreciated, safe, communicates well…
My flood gates will close if I’m not emotionally taken care of.
Trying to have a baby
Those people aren’t on reddit.
My dick, it’s very large and in charge lol. I posted it on my reddit for a bit of fun recently, the thousands of upvotes and messages was a bit shocking 😅
I mean it helps having a partner that you’re actually physically attracted to and get turned on every time you see them naked lmao
This posts comments have taught me a valuable lesson about being a sexless loser.
I have sex 3 or more times a week… and the motivation is sex.
It’s fun
i have a sweet tooth and my girl’s got wedding cakes
Do these people exist 😳?
How is it possible? Are rich or working in red light districts?
/S
My wife.
Keeping open minded and having fun!
Tell me youre an incel without telling me youre an incel .
all the sweet comments about how people love their spouses is making me so emotional!
may this kind of love find me.
ah…. the sex
If your in love it happens….
I’m 33 and we do average around 2-3 times a week. Sometimes more. We’ve been together for 5 years now and the sex is still amazing. It brings us closer together. It feels great. We are both very attracted to each other. We are two women, I don’t know if that matters in the equation but I’ll just add that.
My wife is hot
I like sex?
This is weird question.
I am horny. I forget all the shitty things around me when I have sex, it’s like a drug to forgetting. I actually don’t know how people who can have sex every day, dont have it…
I do what I love…..
My wife reading smut
It’s not about motivation. It’s just having the time. There are weeks my husband and I just aren’t up for it at all – work is busy, we’re tired, etc. But then there are weeks where those problems don’t exist and we just went to fuck 🤷♀️ and those weeks it’s 3-4 times, if not more.
The horny compels me.
Scheduled sex motivates me, 5 times a week for me. And mixing it up, sometimes Bj sometimes sex
Motivates me? I got the urges my man. I want to, I don’t need motivation.
Sex motivates me, it’s fun, it’s enjoyable, it’s brings me closer to my partner.
And we just keep getting better at it
Hot girlfriend and amazing sex.
I love my partner. I don’t need any motivation, it comes naturally
Three times a week, bruh more like 3 times a day sometimes.
More importantly, how?
Sweat and shame.
My wife started working out more and felt more confident. Then I asked her to start posting NSFW content here on reddit. That’s been very kinky and for the last few months we’ve been fucking 14 times a week on average! We also chat with people and share more pics of her in our DMs, so it keeps the flame burning during the day!
Sex….that’s what motivates me
aint nobody got time for that
45, poly, swinger, in several relationships.
Hard to name a average, as I see my partners in very irregular intervals – it could be that one stays for a weekend, or up to 3 weeks, but then with some it can also be 2 months in between. Still, when we meet, it’s typically 2-3 times a day for the duration of the stay.
3 times a week I would consider a low amount of sex.
I don’t know what particular thing should motivate me. Sex seems like a pretty basic drive to me. It’s fun, so I have as much as I can. But also each of my partners is very different, so maybe that also keeps it fresh.
When you get a full sack, you’ll want it. simple like that.
Every day will be new day 😁😁
Wait. People are actually having sex? My girl wont even let me fondle with her breasts because it now makes her feel like I just treat her like an object. I’m confused because it wasn’t like this in the beginning and I haven’t thought of her any less or treated her any worse.
Sex
Who need motivation. The sweet juicy place is motivation by itself don’t you think? I would live there if I could.
The sex is great and no one knows we’re having sex so it’s exciting
I’m 39 and would probably have sex with my partner on average 7 or more tines a week, but I broke my knee and trapped a nerve in my pelvis so it’s like a struggle for once a week atm 😬
I hate to disappoint you guys, but what you call motivation and love is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed.
It plays a pretty big role in keeping my partner happy and healthy. Sex in a relationship is like the bathroom of a house. It’s not the main reason I’d buy a house, but if I bought a house that didn’t have a bathroom, I’d go insane.
I enjoy sex and have a partner willing to have sex with me.
sex. That’s literally it. I’m in it for the love of the game.
Currently in a bit of a honeymoon stage with my girlfriend. We both enjoy sex, and like making each other feel good. The chemistry is awesome, and a lot of it is based on mutual support, affirmation, and communication.
It’s been 12 months of this, and it doesn’t seem to be slowing down.
I wanna get off but I’m too lazy to do it myself.
We work out together everyday and have at least one date night a week.
Yes we have kids and we find a way to make time to be Mr and Mrs instead of mom and dad
Because of that the sex life remains pretty awesome
Morning wood.
I do love my wife and I do love her a tiny bit more every day – I think she is the hottest, sweetest and best being besides my kids on this planet and I learned that even thinking about her turns me on if I want to. Pretty good motivation for me 😀
My fiancée’s butt
Haha, Just taking my toilet break and stumbled across this. I’m coming 50, my wife of 16 years (41 years old) who was never very sexually active got cancer last year, she is recovering amazing and has found an appetite for sex, she is beautiful, amazing and sexy as hell.
The only motivation I need is seeing her lick her lips and give me the look.
More sex!
A sexy wife and a healthy marriage
A sexy wife and a healthy marriage
Two things:
My wife’s insatiable libido.
If I don’t use it I’m afraid I’ll lose it. 55m and 62f and everyday I’m doing something. lol.