They couldn’t even comprehend what it would feel like if you weren’t capable of attracting anyone and receive absolutely no interest. They never felt truly lonely or hopeless, and the longest they’ve been without relationship/sex was few months.
They couldn’t even comprehend what it would feel like if you weren’t capable of attracting anyone and receive absolutely no interest. They never felt truly lonely or hopeless, and the longest they’ve been without relationship/sex was few months.
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I disagree. Worth isn’t tied to how other people see you, your relationships, or your accomplishments. True self worth comes from how you see yourself.
This comes from someone who doesn’t have many friends, and has never been in a relationship.
It’s not wrong to do so, it’s just bad for you.
I once tied my worth to datig. I had a big game of da tig and when the game ended I realised I was still it. I couldn’t let go of da tig and today da tig still haunts me.
Yes and no.
Your whole worth is definitely not tied you how attractive you are in dating, but it is definitely one aspect of you that is important, that might be better or worse, and it’s an important aspect for a majority of people. So yeah, pretending it doesn’t matter is pretty dumb or is just cope.
Err, no actually. I was ugly fir the first 25 years of my life and pretty “meh” for a good while after. Did it hurt my ego? For a while.
Then I watched my prettier friends get their egos hurt in worse ways and decided that this is stupid and built my sense of self on something other than “do random people want to bang me enough that they’ll stick around to see if they like me”.
I’m hot now. Attention cramps my style.
Sounds like you need a better hobby. Yes, it feels shit not to have someone in your life. But there’s so much to do in life outside of dating.
Have you considered therapy?. Like legitimately.
Volunteer. Doing something good for someone else is indisputably worth something. And you might even meet someone along the way