Had a co-worker who would regularly and PROUDLY flirt with the hottest girls in the office all the time. Dude is a dad now. Destroyed my self confidence and ego, but flirted with these hot women daily.
I would ask him, dude, does your wife not get jealous? Does she not care?
It didn’t even register in his mind as conceive-able. It literally just went one ear out the other.
I’ve been a cheater so I am a piece of shit myself, but I have shame about it, this dude didn’t even think to feel shame.
It was just a flex for him and entertainment.
I do not see it as okay. I can’t believe I befriended the guy genuinely too, should have dodged his lack of morals as I eventually became more depraved than he.
My last gf was like this, no matter where we went, she’d do anything to get guys to look at her, admire her, hit on her. Sometimes she’d literally stare at them until they reacted, all while I’m buying the drinks, then I’ve gotta deal with the drama she created. Really not interested in women anymore, haven’t had one partner that actually told the truth, had goals, therapy, etc. They all claimed to be on a healthy path, but one margarita and they’re texting the ex or blaming me for flirting, when all I wanted was time with her. It sucks, I’m sorry, but it’s never going to change and I simply don’t need the hassle.
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What if the flirting is approved of by the other partner? Like pre flirt.
You have been pre-approved to flirt.
Not everyone is monogamous.
Had a co-worker who would regularly and PROUDLY flirt with the hottest girls in the office all the time. Dude is a dad now. Destroyed my self confidence and ego, but flirted with these hot women daily.
I would ask him, dude, does your wife not get jealous? Does she not care?
It didn’t even register in his mind as conceive-able. It literally just went one ear out the other.
I’ve been a cheater so I am a piece of shit myself, but I have shame about it, this dude didn’t even think to feel shame.
It was just a flex for him and entertainment.
I do not see it as okay. I can’t believe I befriended the guy genuinely too, should have dodged his lack of morals as I eventually became more depraved than he.
My last gf was like this, no matter where we went, she’d do anything to get guys to look at her, admire her, hit on her. Sometimes she’d literally stare at them until they reacted, all while I’m buying the drinks, then I’ve gotta deal with the drama she created. Really not interested in women anymore, haven’t had one partner that actually told the truth, had goals, therapy, etc. They all claimed to be on a healthy path, but one margarita and they’re texting the ex or blaming me for flirting, when all I wanted was time with her. It sucks, I’m sorry, but it’s never going to change and I simply don’t need the hassle.