Please help me I’m stuck in a new situations w/me 22M and 17F

I’m writing to this 17-year-old girl, I’m 22. She was engaged for almost two years to a boy of my age and they broke up two Sundays ago. A friend of hers who I already know told me that before they broke up she was very interested in me, and the day after they broke up she wrote to me.

On the second day we sexchatted with a few photos, then we continued to send each other digs and normal photos for quite a while. On Sunday we had a discussion in which she told her to stop writing to her because although she liked me she didn’t know what she wanted and that I was wasting my time. In the afternoon she went back to making jokes and sending photos as before, we met in a bar but at different tables and we just stared at each other.

On Monday she asked me to go under her house to stay an hour talking in the car and we stayed there for two hours, but she had expressly forbidden me to do anything despite her provoking. Yesterday during the day he wrote to me: there is sexual attraction, photos in which you can see half intimate, he asked me to come to dinner with me tonight, that we are only friends, that he has a high ego so he is very difficult and I will never get anything and I waste time. …

I’m not understanding anything anymore, I thought I’d make her come tonight and try to kiss her but I don’t want to force anything. I have the impression that she is doing this because I told her that I lose interest when I understand that a girl wants to give it to me and because she does not want to give it to me easily. Until last week he was telling his friend that he wanted to fuck me… I also know that she had her period on Saturday so maybe she still had it on Monday and it passed today.

Please help me, I can give u other details if u need.

**TL;DR;** The situation involves a girl who recently broke up with her boyfriend and is sending mixed signals. While she’s flirtatious and shows attraction, she also expresses uncertainty about what she wants and sets boundaries. This confusion may be due to her emotional state post-breakup. The guy is unsure whether she’s serious or just testing him, and while he’s interested, he wants to respect her boundaries. The advice is to take things slow, communicate clearly, and respect her space until both are on the same page about their intentions.