Justnfil fell in the tub last night and couldnt get out. So justnomil called us to come help. took a half an hour and a lot of struggle to get him safely out of the tub, clothed and in bed. He was basically deadweight. Justnomil? Completely useless….more than useless. In the way. Wouldnt step aside when she called two grown men for help (me and my son who is a weightlifter). The worst,part? The whole time she was berating him, talking about how much trouble he was, how this was going to fluck up their outing tomorrow…total lack of empathy and full on narc. Its all about her. The complete lack of empathy on her part would have been astounding but ive known her for 25 years and have seen it before. Many times. They just got kicked out of a medical group as patients last week formtheir behavior. But now my son got to see the fullon version of his grandma and it wasnt pretty.
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As a disabled person this broke my heart. There’s nothing worse than being helpless on the floor, naked and wet, while other people discuss the logistics of rescuing you. Except being helpless, naked, and wet while other people berate and insult you. (Yes, being wet is worse than being dry. Idk why, it just is.) If you don’t want to go through that again, next time tell her to call the fire department. They’ll either make her be quiet or wait in another room.