hi all, yesterday i posted and got many messages thanks for that.
the thing is i am getting bullied by some classmates in my college and whole class laughs on their funny jokes about me. i am suffering through mental illness and i wasnt like that but now i dont have motivation to face thosee. on group chat they told me that on monday i will face more things…. the thing is now everyone has grown we all are almost 21-22 in our class but they still doing these things.
thing is i have sever ocd and im continously thinking and having sever anxiety my hand is shiveringg…. i cant tell my parents ( cuz i dont want to feel them that their son is looser )
im just so upset with everyone …everyone just hurt me including my friends…. i never done anything bad to anyone so why people are doing with me and making my life so difficult … i have really noone to talk . im just tiredd (sorry for mistakes in writing )
edit: please someone msg me in private i need to discuss something imp cant share here if you can otherwise no problem
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You’re not alone, and you don’t have to face this by yourself.
Sounds like they aren’t your friends. Bullying stems from the insecurity of the bullier so time to reflect that back and make it uncomfortable or unenjoyable to bully you.
Go and talk to administration about this. There shoukd be a guidance counselor, Dean of Student Affairs or something like that. Tell the office that you are being targeted by bullies and need to speak to someone with authority to help you. Tell them how it is affecting both your academic pursuits as well as your mental health.
If the bullying involves theft or destruction of your belongings or physical violence, do not hesitate to bypass your uni and go straight to the police. File assault or theft charges.
You do not deserve this.
You have a right to get your education without threat or fear of harm.
PLEASE do this. YOU ARE WORTH IT!
I get you and feel you… You know from the insides you are suffering so much but whatever they do, ignore them, just ignore, I know it’s never easy, it hurts deep but that’s the way out, stop giving them attention or if they do anything from the front move away from there. You go to college, study, do your work, and come back.
Now, despite all this, if they bother you file a complaint against them and speak to your professors, if that doesn’t help and it goes to an extreme level you can take help from counsellors or bring the matter in view of a higher authority…
Remember karma is real and they do what they do because they haven’t got any job left in the world, you do you and reach great heights. You got this. 💪
Also remember about Lady Gaga, you should read her history…it’s really inspiring…
Sorry man 😕
Your feelings are valid. As a reformed bully, sometimes we don’t know we are bullies. Sometimes we bully to deflect attention from ourselves.
hey there, really sorry you’re going through this. you don’t deserve it. you’re not alone, and things can get better. just hang in there, please.