Rights for a person w a restraining order that’s been allowed to live at home the whole time and make all decisions for her kid.

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Location: California

2023, my husband was granted a restraining order.

I had driven drunk with my 1 year old once to get away from his abuse (I’m not a saint). There is also an outstanding anger management class for him bc he throw his phone at me so bad I had to get stitches

After 3 months into the order, he allowed me to come home bc I had an alcoholic seizure and had no other rehabs to go.

I’ve been home with my family for 2 years as of October. I got her in to ballet, preschool, my name is on utilities.

He’s has gotten violent again and I have photos.
Do I have rights to end the order bc I’ve been living in the house?

I’m sober and I’m worried about my daughter bc he has started smacking her.
In LA California

I’m in touch w his family and want her to stay down there for a couple weeks until preschool starts.