Idk if this is the correct sub but here we go. I (24 F) live with two roommates (25 F and 25 NB). I have lived with them for 2 years and 4 years respectively. There have been 2 situations now where I’ve brought men I’ve been seeing over to the house and then later the men act in a scary way lol. The first time the dude brought flowers by after i had blocked him which was scary and the second time my tire (maybe) got slashed. I want to have a normal dating life and hook up with people who i want to hook up with. I realize i probably was quick to show those guys particularly where I live (showed them both within a month of dating) and I don’t want to endanger my roommates. They are definitely stressed about their safety. How long should I wait before bringing a man I’m dating to my house? Is there a way I could prevent this?
TL;DR – how soon is too soon to bring a man over if we are seeing each other / sleeping together to protect my safety and the safety of my roommates?