My mother in law (not mil just yet) we live with her due to not being able to find a house, she has just come into the room and point plank asked my partner what he wants for dinner and then asked what side he wants, she didn’t ask me what I wanted but did say ‘hello’ he asked what I wanted so that’s okay!
Am i overreacting? Is she being rude?
I asked him to talk to her about it but don’t know how he should do it, any advice on that??
Edit: I would like to state this happens with everything not just dinner, I’m mostly ignored he gets spoken to but not me..
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You’re feeling a bit left out and wondering if she’s being rude. It’s understandable, especially since you’re living with her. Maybe your partner could have a casual conversation with her, mentioning that you’d like to be included in dinner plans or decisions. Something like, “Hey, mom, just so you know, it would be great if we could discuss dinner plans together.” This way, it’s not confrontational, but rather a gentle reminder.
Or perhaps ask her how you both can help her with dinner?