Had the worst, most controlling boyfriend ever. A year of dating and him screaming at me and him saying he would kill himself if we broke up, then I finally got out. A couple months later, I learned that he had slept with his little brother’s fiancé while living with them rent free. She also once answered my ex’s phone when I was feeling hopeless and dejected by him to tell me I was being annoying.
So, I kept tabs on them. The girl is all sunshine and rainbows with him acting like she didn’t f*ck her fiancés brother in their bed. I realized she had Etsy and Facebook shops with her items sold on there, her email on full display.
If I’m bored, I sign it up for spam emails, STD emails, insurance quotes, and finally found an email site that sends thousands of emails in an hour (allegedly). I noticed her shop is on a “short break” and I can’t help but smirk thinking it worked and the revenge is getting served cold to her and in turn, my ex…
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What is the site for the email spam please?
This doesn’t hurt your ex at all. They’re the one you should be sending spam emails to.
You must have a lot of time on your hands to continue stalking, I mean keeping tabs on your ex’s girlfriend. Best thing you can do for yourself is to live your best life and leave them alone to continue their misery together. Ever wonder why your ex stays hidden from you? Good luck.
Wow, he is the asshole yet you try to ruin her life, you should have helped her instead.
I guess you are an asshole as well.
You think a controlling asshole cares what his partner is going through? You’re definitely tormenting the real villain here 🙄
You have so much energy to pay a lot of attention to these people …
You sound obsessed, have you considered therapy or get a new hobby? You are only wasting time of your life that you will never recover and instead of using that time to make your life better you do this?
I think you should really check your priorities before you see yourself in the mirror old and sad because you spent more time trying to ruin others while they don’t care about you and while you invested time on them instead of yourself.
I know this might sound harsh, not really the intention but consider therapy and invest time on you, get over it.
Honestly you need to grow up. No wonder he’s your ex. You are a loser. Find something more productive to do with your life. Touch grass or something. Clearly you have issues
“found an email site that sends thousands of emails in an hour”
My advice: never do this. These sites are often FBI traps, set up to snag people willing to break the law to harass people (which, legally, is what you did). The sites claiming to send someone thousands of emails in an hour are pretty much never real, and you can get in a lot of trouble.
There was a real website, https://mailbait.info, that used to do this. But it stopped working MANY years ago. Signing someone up there will have no effect. Most other sites are FBI traps.
You finally got out and yet you see to spend far too much of your time letting them live rent free in your head. Who has time to worry about sh#tty people? They deserve each other. Betting her shop being on a short break has nothing to do with you so maybe stop thinking you hold any power in this situation and focus on yourself and your future.
It’s petty sure but I don’t see the revenge or the sabotage.
The best thing you can do is forget this loser and move on with your life. It’s pretty obvious he’s living rent free in your head. Continuing to seek revenge and get even by acts of pettiness only brings you down to his level. It’s a tough pill to swallow: some people suck. The only thing you can control is how it affects you.
While this is definitely petty revenge, I think that you’ve misdirected your efforts.
Youre trying to cling to the relationship and chaos imo.
So you’re not going directing this towards the person who betrayed the relationship? Got it.
The grenade you want to throw is a fake sexual health clinic email stating one of her recent partners (or ‘a’ recent partner) has tested positive for something, and to please seek further advice/testing. When she goes off on whoever she is sleeping with- your ex, his brother, possibly others… she will open her own can of worms. Her fiancé will know it’s not him, so will start to question her, your ex will probably be pissed and his denials that the email relates to him will piss her off.. rinse and repeat x
Have you told the little brother?
…in turn, your ex…WHAT???
If she re-opens her Etsy shop, but something cheap if you can, and leave a 1 star review. I’m a shop owner myself and pretty much anything but a five-star review really fucks up your algorithm and makes the shop not show up on searches and you’re basically fucked…and Etsy does fuck all to help the shop owner out even if the one-star review is unwarranted.
So confused why people keep horrible ex’s in their world. If you’re done with someone, be done with them.
Tbh this is one of those secondhand embarrassment “petty revenge” stories of people who don’t know how to move on with their lives. Let it go—this isn’t the win you think it is. You’re only hurting yourself by continuing to obsess over people who literally wouldn’t piss on you if you were on fire.
Also, by reading your other comments… yeah, therapy is needed.
Just have sex with the brother like a normal person