Said nothing to the pretty girl

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I (M23) went in to get my birth certificate. The girl behind the desk was very pretty. She kept smiling at me, to the point even a dude as dense as me couldn’t miss the hint. I kept thinking “I should tell her she has a really nice smile” but just politely left after getting my document. That was yesterday. I’m aware these apps are a waste of time, but I just saw her on Bumble. I know I should have taken the shot. But my gut says that shot has passed. Part of me wanted to “lose” my birth certificate so I could actually try this time or just call the office and leave my number, but I don’t know if that’s socially unacceptable/would be uncomfortable. So I’ll seek out extensive advice before doing something that could potentially make someone uncomfortable.

Comments

  1. Dawgy66 Avatar

    Send her a message on Bumble. It’d be easier than trying to see her at her job again, and you’d have more time to talk to her.

  2. Eurisko42 Avatar

    Just contact her on Bumble?

  3. jerseybaboon Avatar

    Made this mistake so many times in my life. We live and learn, you will get such opportunities again. But agreed with the other commenter message her on Bumble