I am a 24 yr old in a relationship with a 28 yr old for three years. We have had fights over communication, sex life and anger. We both work night jobs and we barely spend time together. I have some emotional trauma and grief. Our relationship seems focused and not a loving relationship. Yes we have our good days but we also have our bad days. What should I do? I need all the alive 1 can get. We just keep bringing up each other’s past and fighting about everything. I do love him but there is no spark in our relationship, it almost seems like we are roommates that are friends.
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Summary is that we fight all the time about communication and lack of sex. What should I do?