After my ex M (25) and i broke up, we cut all communications and never broke no contact. He was anyways left to other state to pursue his studies so we’ve never actually crossed paths again.
After 2 years of radio silence from both of us, just 4 days ago when i was on the way home from my classes, my ex happens to drive right past us (both facing each other) and i caught him staring at me and that’s when i realised he came home. He must’ve been shock seeing me all of a sudden.
And then we drove past each other again the next day, and the next, and we made eye contact every time, i honestly thought he’d look away because he knew my car but he never looked away. It made me think he got a job here or something, i can’t really say for sure. What i know for sure is, we are going to see each other every day in the same road.
He has been on my mind again ever-since and i keep telling myself to forget him and loose hope because he never made it a point to contact me after our accidental encounter so yeah, i wanted to write here and maybe get your thoughts on it and ask if you’ve ever had an encounter with your ex partner like that?
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You keep telling yourself to forget him and lose hope. So that tells me that you are interested in contacting him and seeing where else your relationship may go. You are an adult. Contact him yourself instead of waiting for him. He might be worried about the same thing that you are. So he is not reaching out for the same reasons.
Well, next time you see each other, just say hi. That’s enough to signal that you’re open to talk to him. I oppose the text fest “hi, how are you doing” nonsense.