sex ain’t that big a deal

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I (M18) just lost my virginity after being a gooner for a long time, in high school all my friends hyped it up as like the most pleasurable thing in the planet and it really didn’t feel as like i imagined, the girl i was with really seemed to enjoy it tho, we were at it around 25 minutes.Maybe it was because of the condom? I dunno kinda overrated in my opinion, it didn’t feel as good as when I first listened to system of a down. So my point is, if you are currently feeling really desperate or pressured to have sex, don’t worry about it, it’s not something life changing. that’s my opinion at least.

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  2. dogmeat1003 Avatar

    In my experience, I didn’t like sex much at all until I met my current partner. It’s way different with someone you truly love

  3. Nyhttitan Avatar

    “it didn’t feel as good as when I first listened to system of a down. ” xD

  4. jeazous Avatar

    yeah I’d rather be gay

  5. savbh Avatar

    It’s not something life changing but it really depends on a lot of things. The person you’re doing it with, your energy levels, the mood. It can be good, it can be bad, it can be anything in between.

  6. OkCluejay172 Avatar

    One nice thing about sex is it gets better as you do it more

  7. They_Live66 Avatar

    Yeah, condoms do indeed suckxd

  8. Ok_Armadillo_5364 Avatar

    This is pretty normal. Not all sex is good sex. Sometimes it’s great, sometimes it alright, and sometimes it can even be bad.

    If you’ve got your hormones under control, and you can wait for someone that meshes well it’ll be better.

    Also, what’s gooning? Google’s definition didn’t make a lot of sense

  9. idkwhatimbrewin Avatar

    > around 25 minutes

    Sure thing buddy, totally believable story

  10. Idontknowwhattoputf Avatar

    Same shit happened to me. Sex is whatever but being able to be intimate with someone you love is dope

  11. No-Can-6237 Avatar

    First girl I was with, underwhelming. 2nd girl, mind blowing.

  12. Gastricbasilisk Avatar

    There’s such things as bad sex. You sir had bad sex.

  13. Dr-Assbeard Avatar

    Fucking based take dude, go break your gooning record

  14. Fickle_Blackberry_64 Avatar

    maybe u an asexual?