I (37F) am dating (36F) who has an avoidant attachment and we are trying to work through this which is our biggest issue. She has been doing a lot better communicating and etc but the issue now for me is sex. Of course she had issues but I can’t and don’t want to keep putting this need I have on the back burner but I’m also tired of bringing it up. For reference we haven’t had sex in 5 months. I know most people will say I should leave, but I really love this woman and I’m trying to give it and us a chance. We’ve been together for 3 years. Any ideas or suggestions. Especially from someone who’s dealt with avoidant or who is.
TL;DR I’ve been with my partner who has an avoidant attachment for 3 years. We haven’t had sex in 5 months. 37F and 36F.
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It’s your choice. You shouldn’t listen to someone telling you what you should or shouldn’t do. People stay in sexless marriages for decades. The question is are you that person? You might be.