I (26) missed a video call with a friend (30) and told her I’d call her back in a couple days. I called her back and when she answered she was actively sucking someone’s dick.
I am pretty sure she has some social awareness issues and has as long as I’ve known her. Up until now I’ve immediately let her know her behavior wasn’t socially appropriate and we moved on. But it was mostly just saying out of pocket things. Until this. And I really am not sure how to address it because I’m really not sure she will understand why it was wrong.
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Dawg that ain’t self awareness issues, this ho weird as fuck 🤣🤣🤣
I’d let her know that that is sexual harassment and distance yourself from her if she doesn’t understand
Some people just be like that. If it is social awareness and not some kind of sexual harassment she’ll bring it up herself and you can joke with her about it and tell her in a chill way it was too taboo for you
At least you know she sucks dick willingly. There’s that.
Should have screen recorded it and sent it to her mom, granny, dad, brother, uncles. Shitty ppl deserve shitty consequences
that’s beyond crazy that you’re trying to defend this woman like she’s a child. self awareness issues should’ve been fixed a long time ago.. she is a very weird individual and it shouldn’t be something you need to address, this should’ve something that ENDS a friendship. I would never be okay with a friend actively sucking dick and talking to me at the same time. absolutely mind boggling and i hope your friend finds help
She might be flirting with you in a dumb ass way
That is an extremely fucked up thing to do, there’s a difference between lack of social awareness and whatever the fuck that was. If you really feel the need to say something tell her straight up that that is a big deal and something disgusting to do to someone, shit like that is bound to get her in trouble eventually.
shitpost advice: next time her calls make sure you’re taking a dump and push really hard.
real advice: man just stop answer her calls and tell her that you’re going to kink shame her
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What do you mean you don’t know how to address it? How did you address it at the time? Yes she most certainly did know it was wrong, and so did the owner of the dick.
>She Answered the a Video call while sucking pp
>I (26) missed a video call with a friend (30) and told her I’d call her back in a couple days. I called her back and when she answered she was actively sucking someone’s dick.
>I am pretty sure she has some social awareness issues and has as long as I’ve known her. Up until now I’ve immediately let her know her behavior wasn’t socially appropriate and we moved on. But it was mostly just saying out of pocket things. Until this. And I really am not sure how to address it because I’m really not sure she will understand why it was wrong.
Mind the company your with
Why did you word the title like that 😭
Sounds like an exhibitionist, maybe with goal of doing porn
Sounds like she has a fetish for people watching her do stuff… involving you though is completely non consensual
She does know it’s rude to talk with your mouth full 🤣🤣
I think the only way to address it is to just be blunt and to the point. If it’s part of her personality I doubt much will change.
Yo home gurl said fuck it I been waiting for both this call and this kawk. Lmao
Does she have some kind of issue? I’m not talking about autism, I’m talking about personality disorders or similar that can explain this.
Because I think most people, even neurodivergents, can agree that answering a video call while sucking dick is not appropriate just because it’s a private sex stuff that should be done intimately, unless you like to be watch and the person watching also likes to watch and it’s something that has been agreed.
Otherwise, I’m afraid your friend might have some kind of problem. Did she seem fine? Was she drunk or high?
And concerning how to tell her, just tell her how you felt. “I felt really uncomfortable the other day talking to you because you made me watch something I definitely didn’t want to watch and be a part of. Your sex life is something private and while I respect it, I don’t want to be involved in it and picking the call while doing that was disrespectful”.
OP: It’s best to leave this friendship because she is being disrespectful. I (F) went through this with my best friend when I was in high school and even after high school. She used to have sex in front of me with her boyfriend, do all sorts of sexual things with him, all the time. She would wait till I wasn’t looking or was in a different space to start doing this stuff and when I would walk in or turn my head (if I was already in the space) I would find myself in a scene. I hated it and she knew it embarrassed me. She even did this stuff in public. She’d always apologize after I left and told her she was wrong but then she’d do it again. I left the friendship because I wasn’t going to be disrespected any longer. We all have boundaries, or should have them anyway, and it seems like yours are repeatedly being crossed. I’m sorry this is happening but don’t waste your time anymore.
What’s your wife opinion on how to deal with it?
No dude she did that on purpose. Maybe she thought it would turn you on or something