She was my bestfriend .We used to be really close, but after changing schools when I was 16, she started becoming distant. I always made the effort to stay in touch, I’d message her often, check in,ask about her studies,but she slowly started getting dry and cold. Eventually, she began ignoring my texts completely.
I respected myself enough to stop chasing and let it go. She even removed me from her Instagram IDK WHY? A few weeks later, I found out she had a boyfriend, which she never even told me about.
Now, after all this time, she suddenly messaged me on WhatsApp like nothing happened. I don’t know if I should reply, or JUST ignore like she used to do.
Or should I just be the sweetest friend she never deserved?
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I wouldn’t be friends with her again. Sounds like once she got into a relationship she put the friendship to the back burner when in reality you should be able to juggle a relationship and friendships.
Move on and find better friends!
If she hurt you, don’t feel pressured to respond. Set your boundaries and be honest about how you feel. Protect your peace.
Ignore her you’ll be better off