Haven’t spoken to her in months (if you take a look at my post history, there’s more context for why). My husband talks to her on the phone maybe once a week and this week she called and told him that she went out of state to visit her oldest son, my “BIL”.
My BIL has a daughter in her late teens, this girl unfortunately got set up for failure by both my JNMIL and my BIL, she was born when BIL was a teen and JNMIL basically took over “parenting” for this child. That parenting included, relentless bullying of course, because this woman can’t help but feel insecure about any other woman near her, she genuinely hates other females.
This poor girl got fat shamed to hell, basically her entire life by my JNMIL, and she still does it….My MIL will however, being the fake, kniving asshole that she is, will play nice with her in person as a way to get “intel” and drama to gossip with the rest of the family about.
So, JNMIL, went out of state to where BIL and his daughter—her granddaughter, live. BIL and his daughter don’t live together as BIL is a failure of a father and his daughter is unfortunately having to look out for herself by living with older men she dates, men who may not have her best interests in mind. Well, JNMIL somehow found out where she was staying and decided to visit her without warning—despite the fact that they have never been on good terms. Her granddaughter then calls the cops on her and the rest of the story is vague because MIL was being hesitant to say much about it to my DH but it sounds like the cops basically told her she needed to leave and had no right to be there.
That’s about all I know, but none of it surprises me. I am surprised, MIL hasn’t tried finding my new apartment and approaching me uninvited (I live alone at the moment, my husband is another state for his job temporarily). It does scare me that one day, she may try to…