I’ve been seeing someone for about a month. It moved pretty quick. Sex on the third date. Lots of sex after that. we see eachother pretty frequently.
But due to the age difference, her having moved from another country 5 months ago etc. I was a bit worried about timelines.
I brought it up and said i really like her but i worry we aren’t on the same timeline. And worry about the long term.
Her response was basically to say she really likes me, could see it going somewhere, but isn’t ready for commitment right now. Said she’s just had a massive change by moving across the world. Has only been single for 5 months. Didn’t expect this. But really wants to keep seeing me. Also said she’s pretty confident kids aren’t what she wants.
She said she doesn’t see any reason to rush into making a decision but will respect whatever I want to do.
That’s fine obviously. And it’s obviously still early too. But it worries me.
I would like to see her still as well. I really get on with her. And the sex is awesome if I’m honest. But I’m thinking this maybe won’t work long term because of fundamental differences.
I was thinking of taking a step back. Texting a bit less. Maybe seeing her less. To try adjust myself to being okay and not getting too attached. But she got a bit upset last time and thought I didn’t like her anymore.
I’m not sure how to deal with this? It’s making me very anxious.
Tl;dr seeing a girl but she’s not ready for commitment yet. Want to know how to protect myself