My (40M) girlfriend (39F) is bisexual and very open about when she feels attraction to someone.
She met her friend (32F) about 18 months ago because she was dating my gf’s ex, and they then grew really close. My girlfriend definitely has a crush on her friend, and the friend has even sent her lingerie photos in the past to ‘approve’.
Now the friend has broken up with her boyfriend and they (my gf and her newly single friend) are discussing getting matching tattoos of raccoons in trash cans. I’m concerned this might be a sign the crush is becoming something more?
TL;DR: My girlfriend is getting matching tattoos with her newly single friend who she has a crush on, should I be concerned?
Comments
Are you in a monogamous relationship? If you’re concerned about developing feelings, it feels like a good conversation to have with your gf. Id approach it in a way that allows her to explore her feelings and not feel accused like she needs to be defensive, so that you can both get to the correct answer.