So I met this coworker around 2 weeks ago, we also go to the same school but I’ve never seen/heard of him beforehand. He’s been talking about his gf from another school, and how she’s driven to where we live for work to see him (~4 hour drive). Some of my female coworkers from another department mentioned his name and his school and asked me if I knew him, which I did at the time (yesterday). They found his tinder which was recently active!! I tried finding her online through fb and insta, tagged photos, comments, nothing. I haven’t heard of her name or know what she looks like, though. And ngl, his school and her school are so far apart, he’s in greek life and she isn’t, the circumstances of them even meeting seem unlikely?? It’s just kinda strange. Should I talk to him about this or do more digging first?
Should I confront my coworker about him cheating??
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Not your monkey, not your circus.
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Honestly, stay out of it for now, the drama isn’t yours to carry. Without proof, confronting him risks lighting a fire you can’t control and curiosity isn’t worth collateral damage.
This is totally not any of your business.
Stay out of what isn’t your business. If he’s not flirting with you and asking you out on dates, then no need to question him about any of his personal business.
Don’t insert yourself. You don’t know the details and you barely know these people. You are going to screw up your job over something that isn’t your business.
So because his profile on Tinder was recently active, you want to poke your nose in these people’s business for what, exactly?? What are you looking to achieve here? You must be young, but haven’t you ever heard the phrase, “Don’t shit where you eat.”? Why would you want to create an issue with this coworker knowing you have to work alongside them??? Why start all this drama? I hate that phrase I’m a girls girl, because it seems it gives people permission to poke their nose in other people’s business. I suggest minding your own business and worrying about yourself. Let these ADULTS figure out their own situation.
So interesting to see. You know you want to get involved in the drama, you come to reddit for validation on you getting involved, most people are rightfully just telling you to myb and you argue on why you feel justified in getting involved. Yes getting cheated on is shitty and people have a right to the truth. But damn dude, why you so worried about what he has going on in his life? You don’t even know the girl and this is gunna cause some time of damage to your professional life. But you do you.