Okay so to start we both agreed that we only wanted something casual and physical only and also to note I’ve never hooked up with someone before him. (i was not a virgin though) I’m not sure if that’s why i caught feelings, but the feelings i caught were not “i want to be in a relationship with you” but just a sense of sort of loyalty??? I keep waiting for his notifications and keep thinking about what he thinks of me or what i should say.
I need advice on what to do because neither of us want a relationship and i don’t want to be exclusive but my head is so messy right now is this a normal feeling for casual sex? (Also i think he’s having sex with other girls because he said that normally girls catch feelings for him after sex.) I feel bad for how i feel as i know we both agreed on no feelings at all. Someone help should I cut ties before it goes further or is this normal feelings for causal sex?
Should i end things with my hookup partner?
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Honey, hookup is for sex only. He never wanted anything more. I hate to hurt you, but you made a VERY bad call here, and are wasting yourself.
This is never going to be more THAN a hookup! Most hookups are once only! Waiting around for more is wasting your time!
Waste no more time here and move on!
You are not keeping it casual n will end up getting more hurt than present!
He is being clear about it so no point walking on a road that wont lead you anywhere
casual sex gets complicated when your heart wants rules your mouth didn’t agree to. If it’s hurting more than it’s fun, walk away.
End it. Never do this to your mental. Women need the bond. We crave the connection it’s natural for us to. Men can literally hook up and walk away. We are built different just remember that. Don’t do this to yourself. Find yourself a man that does want a relationship. Also get tested.