Let me start by saying this isn’t out of the blue or by any means a act of passion.
After 3 yrs of trying to save my marriage after my spouse was unfaithful for 5 whole months an yet has continued to have contact with the affair partner as close as just this weekend they fight me on every act of healing claiming it’s controlling which tbh I’m barely asking the min I caught them once again after yet another night out at the bar alone staying out till almost 6in the am also seen messages about them being offered to go inside to have fun but refuseing supposedly none the less what do y’all think I should do.
Should I leave or should I pack an leave while they are asleep
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Leave whenever you have an opportunity and feel safe to do so but leave none the less
The thing about cheaters is that it’s who they are. And when they’re caught, they get angry and try to make you the bad guy. Like it’s your fault, or you are wrong to be angry or hurt about it.
This is a pattern of behavior that will continue in the future. It’s better to rip the bandaid off this relationship early, than to be disappointed and upset time after time when it keeps happening in the future