i met this guy at a party we spoke a little and i made a lot of like eye contact . when i got home i saw his sister text me saying how he thought i looked rlly good and wanted to speak to me sm the whole time i was like rlly and she sent a ss of them on call to prove it . then a few mins later he messaged me saying how he wanted to speak to me the whole party and he thought i looked rlly good . we spoke all night and i could tell he liked me loads .and then we spoke loads for like 4 days then he left me me on opened and was dry . i blocked him bc my mindset was i’m not gonna chase a man who wanted me first . now it’s like a beginning of august and the party was end of june . i wanna text him so badly and add him bc i actually genuinely liked him and i found him super attractive . there’s another party he will probably be at at the end of august ahould i just hop out looking amazing at the party or add him now and try to rekindle .
should i re add someone i genuinely liked after they got dry
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Honestly, he came on pretty strongly with the “I only had eyes for you” in the first place, and on top of that, the talking phase evidently fizzled out within 4 days. IMO you’re better off not speaking to the guy, if he cared about you or at the very least your perception of him, he would’ve already reached out to you. Redirect your energy towards new relationships that reassure you and that don’t go MIA wo an upfront convo.
Cutting to the chase he may not be as interested in you, but the good thing is, it happened sooner than later so you most likely will not be as attached.
PS not trying to be harsh, but rather empowering😭
Honestly, keep your self respect intact 100%. The ball’s in his court, y’know? He was the one who went dry, right? If he’s interested, he’ll reconnect. You shouldn’t have to chase, especially when you’re the prize. But hey, go to that party and rock it! Look amazing for yourself, not for him. Happiness is the best revenge, sis! 😎💅🔥