I saw this girl(she was 23 at the time) maybe 5-6 times for one nighters back in like 2017-2018. This week out of the blue, her current husband messaged me on FB asking me what I’ve been talking to her about. I’m guessing this is a fishing expedition, because I think there’s been a total of like 3 messages exchanged between her and I in the intervening 7-8 years, and none of them were remotely inappropriate. I don’t care about this girl at all as far as a friendship, or maintaining any kind of contact, as she’s married. Should I message her and let her know that her husband is a snooping weirdo, or just block and move on like I’m inclined to do? I’m sure this isn’t the first sign of nutcase-itis he’s exhibited, so she probably knows what’s up without my intervening.
Should I tell a girl I dated briefly years ago that her current husband is messaging me, trying to fish for info?
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I would say you can give her a quick heads up and preface with I only wanted to let you know incase he asked you about it too or something. But his behavior is weird.
If you don’t care about maintaining a friendship or anything why get involved? I’d block and move on.
If you feel like she could be in danger or anything like that you should let her know.
Danger. Block and move on. You owe nothing to either. Ghost Protocol.
Is there some risk for you to intervene? If not I would tell her. That would be the ethical thing to do
Just don’t get involved