Hi, I just want to get down to it. Basically my ex situationship was messaging me and asking me to meet up to hook up with him. But the thing is, is that he now has a wife who he got married to in November. He told me not to tell her and their relationship was “very crazy” and he just wanted to see me again to hook-up. I just feel sorry for his wife because the reason me and him never worked out is because I found out he was sleeping with other WOMEN (plural) when he told me he was just seeing me. And now knowing he’s still doing it with his now wife just makes me so upset. Idk if I should tell her or just keep it to myself and stay out of it?
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Please be a girl’s girl and do her a favor.
Tell her, make sure you have all the evidence ready to send out to her.
how would you feel if your partner was doing this behind your back? put yourself in her shoes.
Screen shot the evidence, send it to her, and block him on everything.
I would want to know if I was in his wife’s shoes. Would you like to know? If his marriage goes to shit it won’t be because you told, it will be because his a cheating selfish AH. If I was in your place I would tell.
Be a decent human being and treat cheaters as disrespectfully as legally allowed
Tell your husband to leave me alone
Yes tell her n give her all the evidence. Men like that needs to be called out.
I’d tell her
Tell her but protect yourself. Some women will turn around and bash the girl who’s warning them and will publicly side with their cheater husband
Send her the evidence and then if she doesn’t reply block her. You did your bit and you don’t have to engage after that
HOWEVER – make sure your friends and family know this. Because I wouldn’t be surprised if he starts telling his wife you texted him first etc and they spread rumours about you.
Get your story out first. I’d put it on my Insta story lol so everyone knows.
But yeah just text her the evidence and then block. If she has self respect she’ll leave and if she doesn’t she’ll stay. You don’t wanna get sucked into that drama so just do your bit and stay out of it
Yes. She’ll probably be upset (understandably) but in the long run you’re doing her a favor and also that guy is an ass.
You should absolutely tell her. Absolutely.