Context, I’ve known this girl for years she’s only ever nice to me in person, she texts rarely but only for her own benefits. We talked a lot last 8 months but again, it’s just her texting me for her selfish needs. She’s nice in person, has probably wasted 50$ on me, that’s why I’m reluctant to say a word.
She’s been trying to move on from her toxic ex that emotionally damaged her & left her like she was nothing. She’s been a bitch throughout the process. She’s made new friends whom she sees very happy with, mix of boys in the group, & all the boys are friends with her ex. They’ve been close with him since middle school and were seniors now. I want to tell her to not be open around them. But same time i don’t really care about how it turns out.
Any thoughts?
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If it’s still eating at you, just give her a heads up and dip, she can do what she wants with it but at least it’s off your chest. No need to play hero, just be real and bounce.
bruh she’s using u as an emotional dumpster then dipping when she’s good. u owe her nothing. let her crash & burn, she’ll learn the hard way since she wanna play naive with ex’s friends.
Is she not aware that these people are friends with her ex? Maybe I’m missing something but I don’t know how you’d know it and she wouldn’t. If she’s aware let her be, she can make her own choices.
And for your own good cut her off as it seems like she’s using you.
You’re way too nice to waste energy on someone who only hits you up when it suits her. If you warn her you might just get dragged deeper into her chaos sometimes the best move is to watch from the sidelines and let her learn the hard way.
I know exactly how you feel I have been thinking about my situation and I’m pretty sure that it’s going to have a lot of consequences
If you’re not that close and she only hits you up when it benefits her, I’d let her figure it out herself. No point wasting energy on someone who wouldn’t do the same for you.
Texts with no benefits
warn her about what