Some said “if it’s a threat to our relationship then I’ll tell her if it’s just a problem of mine that won’t harm our rs then I’ll keep it hidden simple as that” some also said “Protecting someone from the truth is selfish” what do ya’ll think?
Should you tell your partner everything?
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I tell my partner 99.95% of everything. The other 0.05% that I don’t tell her is when her insecurities are talking to her. I won’t agree with her insecurities trying to spread rumors about my partner.
Us being open with each other has strengthened our trust with each other and we can come to each other with any issue we might have, without fear of retaliation.
i used to. but it seems sometimes she isn’t as interested so I stopped. when she sometimes tell me on why i did not share a specific thing i just say i wouldn’t like to bother you with information that you may find uninteresting.
Agree with both of the comments tbh
Trust is built on telling the truth even when it is hard, it is about taking the accountability and facing the emotions the person is going to go through, nothing is sexier and more attractive than a vulnerable man to me, someone that is soo honest, so self aware and when made a mistake even if it hurts me he still chooses to tell me.. if it is a huge mistake, it hurts more having to find out later, even if I don’t find out my gut feeling is so strong that my body would literally reject the person and I’ll have to suffer thinking I am crazy or why would I feel this way when I can’t find logical answers,, why would anybody want to make someone go through this if they truly care and love the person deeply? (No they care more about themselves and their image)
now this is mostly for major and big problems.
I would def appreciate if it is smth that was a threat or clearly a problem to our relationship and he comes up to me and lets me know, so we try to find a solution if it needs one and talk about it..
With the first comment, if it’s smth harmless and you are consistently trying to change for the better or smth that has happened in the past before knowing your partner, I’d say you don’t really have to mention it but if in case the partner ever brings it up and asks I don’t think you should withhold or hide either, that’s when it will be a problem.
So if it’s a minor think and the partner didn’t ask and you’re consistently pursuing of becoming a better person then yes you don’t have to bring it up but if being asked yes you HAVE to bring it up.
I don’t understand protecting feelings of the other person and shit like that like ur just a hypocrite if ur doing stuff behind and play the nice person and have the excuse “It’s just nothing” or “i don’t wanna hurt them” or “not knowing won’t hurt them” that is immaturity, that is avoiding being accountable and a relationship like that will never succeed.
It’s all about being open and honest when being asked the hard questions.
Do play sneaky shit, don’t withhold information. that’s it.