If you’re asking this to try to figure out if someone likes you, it won’t work.
Love languages vary wildly. Some people express affection through high-frequency, high-energy texts. Others show they care by letting you know you’re on their mind, maybe with a meme, a thoughtful question, or even just by sharing a bit more of themselves than usual.
Some go emoji-happy. Some just respond faster. Some clam up entirely because emotions can be scary.
If you really want to know where you stand, the only way forward is to take the plunge and ask. Yeah it’s a risk. But that’s one of the things that makes love so intense. You can never know for certain.
How do I react to giving lor or receiving love? Either way is the same for me. I clam up. I close myself off and don’t let anything in or out. Doesn’t matter what kind of love it is – romantic, family, platonic. I don’t let myself too close to it. Don’t know why.
Accept it. Accept your feelings and appreciate the moment/ feeling of it. No need to bombard the person with love. Similar to how you love your friends, love your family, there are times to bombard and times to live in the moment. If the other person doesn’t feel the same, that’s okay, there’s nothing wrong with you at all, they just have their own feelings. Example; may have someone who’s YOUR best friend, but they may see you as a really good friend. Any feeling is a normal reaction, what you choose to to do with it is a conscious decision
I am getting better, but messages of love and adoration make me uncomfortable. I have always assumed it’s a line to get something from me, because it always has been. I’m not used to adoration just because I deserve it. So I get awkward and weird, and try to deflect in some way, or I get anxious.
Depends. If they’re distant I get hella anxious. But if they talk to me. Reach out. Ask to hang out. Ask me question about myself or just treat me with basic human decency I’m done for.
I get shy but still wanna talk to him all the time. I get super excited when his name pops up on my phone, but then overthink my replies so I don’t seem clingy. I wanna be around him a lot, but I also don’t wanna come off as too much.
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I want to be around them and make it know. I react with happiness.
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If you’re asking this to try to figure out if someone likes you, it won’t work.
Love languages vary wildly. Some people express affection through high-frequency, high-energy texts. Others show they care by letting you know you’re on their mind, maybe with a meme, a thoughtful question, or even just by sharing a bit more of themselves than usual.
Some go emoji-happy. Some just respond faster. Some clam up entirely because emotions can be scary.
If you really want to know where you stand, the only way forward is to take the plunge and ask. Yeah it’s a risk. But that’s one of the things that makes love so intense. You can never know for certain.
If I love someone, I reply instantly, then panic because maybe it was too instant.
I get quiet. Not because I don’t feel it, but because it scares me how much I do. Love makes me careful and brave at the same time.
My response depends on the message. Love doesn’t blind me to what is being said.
How do I react to giving lor or receiving love? Either way is the same for me. I clam up. I close myself off and don’t let anything in or out. Doesn’t matter what kind of love it is – romantic, family, platonic. I don’t let myself too close to it. Don’t know why.
By suggesting meeting up. Actions speak louder than words.
Accept it. Accept your feelings and appreciate the moment/ feeling of it. No need to bombard the person with love. Similar to how you love your friends, love your family, there are times to bombard and times to live in the moment. If the other person doesn’t feel the same, that’s okay, there’s nothing wrong with you at all, they just have their own feelings. Example; may have someone who’s YOUR best friend, but they may see you as a really good friend. Any feeling is a normal reaction, what you choose to to do with it is a conscious decision
I get scared 🙁
I am getting better, but messages of love and adoration make me uncomfortable. I have always assumed it’s a line to get something from me, because it always has been. I’m not used to adoration just because I deserve it. So I get awkward and weird, and try to deflect in some way, or I get anxious.
Depends. If they’re distant I get hella anxious. But if they talk to me. Reach out. Ask to hang out. Ask me question about myself or just treat me with basic human decency I’m done for.
My last relationship, one of the signs I noticed was I couldn’t help but smile whenever I saw him after a few days apart.
I get shy but still wanna talk to him all the time. I get super excited when his name pops up on my phone, but then overthink my replies so I don’t seem clingy. I wanna be around him a lot, but I also don’t wanna come off as too much.
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