I saw my MIL come running downstairs after she had snuck up there very quietly. She had a bag of what looked like bathroom trash and ran it out to our can. It could have had my clothes in there, I don’t know.
To me, it’s rude to sneak upstairs when I’ve told her, only for a shower, that’s it. Don’t go in the bedrooms, don’t start cleaning, just take a shower and go back down!
So anyway, I decided, if she is going to “Sneak”, she can’t stay overnight here anymore.
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Have you (or better yet, DH) asked WTF she’s doing slithering out with a bag of garbage? Who does that? Maybe put a camera up there and present her with the evidence to show she’s doing what you specifically asked her not to do, and therefore is no longer welcome overnight. It’s not just rude, it’s…weird!
Go open the bag?