SO (27M) accidentally made a group chat between us and another girl

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Kindly help me make sense of this objectively. I am really just overthinking.

Just a brief context: I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. None that I know of — he has no cheating history, but has dishonesty issues in our relationship (i.e., frequently telling white lies; getting mad when asked about something).

Most of his days are spent playing online games, if not at work during weekdays. He plays with a lot of people (I don’t know any for he simply does not tell me or introduce them).

So just today, he shared a Facebook post (meme) on Messenger, which accidentally made a group chat among us and another girl. He immediately kicked us both off the gc. He told me that he misclicked a button in FB.

I asked him who the girl was and he said that she was someone he’s been playing with along with other ‘online’ friends. I am just overthinking. By miclicking the two of us, does it mean that both of us are in his top list? Does that equate to frequent interaction with the girl?

TL;DR: He accidentally made a Messenger GC among us and another girl. He was sharing a meme from FB. The girl was someone he’s been playing with. To do so inadvertently, does it mean that she in on his top list and they are interacting frequently?

Comments

  1. trashycajun Avatar

    If they game together they probably do talk frequently. I’m not gonna tell you how to feel, but if you ain’t got trust you ain’t got a good relationship.