So my date may have tried to do something bad, and I lectured him

So I 25F got reminded of why men completely suck and I should think about remaining single. I went on a date with a guy 30M. Things went fine I thought. But then at his place, (Yes we went in hindsight not my best idea.) He forcibly kissed me and I realize I needed to get tfo.

So him 30M got out of a long-term relationship recently and i got out of mine 3 months back, and we went to a local tavern. Not bad had good talks, and drank some drinks but then he wanted to get away from the crowd and I agreed so we ended up at his place.

When he began to kiss me I immediately could tell he was drunker than I thought and immediately began forming ideas in my head of how to get out of this situation.

When he pulled away for a moment I told him straight up, “I am not cool with having sex with you in this mindframe.”

He tried laughing it off and was like, “Yeah yeah we could chill for a bit and go for it in a bit.”

But I looked this man straight in the eye and told him in a tone that surprised myself because mainly i am considered a chill person, “I am serious get off of me.”

He got scared by my tone of voice and was trying to concentrate. I could tell he was not expecting that and against my better judgement of getting the hell out of there I lectured him on etiquette. Not my bravest moments but hey I got him to stop.

Like 15 mins of me going off and him just struggling to focus and like trying to go in for another kiss., I said, “You should go to bed, you have a good night.” He like stumbled to bed and I got the hell out immediately.

So to my fellow redditors don’t be afraid to say no, and don’t be afraid of voicing your discomfort because it sure as hell stopped a shitty situation from turning dark and dangerous fast. Also be armed with pepper spray js.