A male coworker came out with this gem earlier today: women in large groups don’t coexist as well as men do, because “women just don’t like each other. They won’t say it out loud, but a lot of women view each other as competition, especially if the other girl is cute”.
…just gross. Maybe he wishes we all cared that much? More importantly, can we collectively please stop nodding along to this shit (if any of us ever were)..? If ever there was jealousy of another girl, it’s misplaced – it should be directed at the intentions of men and the male gaze.
Vent over. I love you all. Not that we need to prove it to the guys, just that it’s a feeling which naturally comes up all the time for my friends and sisters <3
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Same. They never been a woman with a woman friend group but yet they know everything about it? My friend group in college is a bunch of girls of different races and classes. 5 yrs and still going strong 🙂