Any one in here enjoy going out alone? I sometimes go to clubs alone. I try to only go to the gay/lesbian bars because that community knows how to have fun and I won’t worry about someone hitting on me. I love sports and often go to bars to watch games. I am extremely friendly if people come up to me but I only have two friend. I guess my question is how do I stop from standing out? I’ve work a mask and even headphones but still I get interrupted.
Comments
Respectfully, it’s inevitable that you’ll stand out in a setting where everyone else travels in packs and makes a lot of noise. If you don’t want interruptions, choose nature.
Straight people truly do not belong in gay bars, it’s so weird how entitled to our spaces y’all feel
I love going out alone it’s great, but I don’t typically go to bars alone unless it’s my local
I hear you, and I respect the need for safe, affirming spaces—especially given the history behind why queer bars exist in the first place. That said, the goal should be mutual respect. Just like queer folks shouldn’t have to justify their presence in so-called ‘straight’ spaces, allies or respectful visitors shouldn’t be seen as invaders in queer ones. It’s about intention, behavior, and respect—not just identity.
—
Would you like a version that leans more assertive or more diplomatic?