If you ever find yourself in a relationship you’re questioning, I think I have some good advice. Think about a book, movie, or tv show where a relationship is explored. If your partner does something or behaves like a character who you’re screaming at for being an idiot, or hoping she leaves him, think about your own relationship you’re questioning. If you fall into the “that’s me” category, take you’re own advice. Leave him or her.
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A good test: “Would Samantha Jones do this?” and if the answer is no, then think, “Would Carrie Bradshaw do this?” and if the answer is yes, don’t do it. You can substitute in any of the SATC girls for your own flowchart, depending on who you align with/don’t align with.
I think it works quite well for me, especially since I don’t have close girl friends to ask about relationships.
Good post!
Yeh but when you have a kid and are financially reliable and set up in an area and have family and things conditioned. It’s very very difficult to say let’s just cut ties.