I constantly see videos of women sticking their fingers in their husbands butt just to laugh at their reaction, the implication always being they know he hates it and do it anyways.
I find this to be really gross and a total breach of consent. Borderline SA in my opinion. If a man was constantly touching his female partner in any way like that knowing she hates it, everyone would call him a POS.
Stop it. You’re gross and your partner deserves respect for his body and boundaries.