Stop asking strangers personal and intimate/sexual questions.

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When I was working at the gas station, me and this very ignorant man were talking and I told him I don’t want children and I’m not ever having children.

His response was “you aint going to do anything to stop it. Are you on birth control?”

That is none of your fucking business!!!

Why would you as a stranger, especially a man, feel comfortable enough to ask a stranger WOMAN if she is taking medication to prevent getting pregnant? That would mean you are insinuating that she is having sex which is also none of your fucking business.

Comments

  1. klient12 Avatar

    I would probably say just ignore those kinda people , they are not worth enough for you and your thoughts , feeling etc . Kinda think them as npc or a non skipable game character . A character whose words are none of your worth

  2. debsirl Avatar

    It’s none of his business whether you want kids or not but you told him anyway so opened the door really.

  3. Tremenda-Carucha Avatar

    Hell yeah this shit’s messed up! Some dude had the balls to ask if I was on birth control just because I said I ain’t having kids. Like, what the fuck is that even about? My sex life (or lack thereof) ain’t your business, buddy. Let’s keep personal shit private and not pry into other people’s lives

    It’s 2025 and we still got dudes running around acting like they own women’s bodies. I get so sick of these prying questions, especially from guys. It’s none of their damn business what I do with my body or who I choose to be with. Just respect the hell outta people’s boundaries already

    Fucking disgusting is what it is when strangers start asking about your birth control and sex habits like it’s any of their concern. These dudes need a reality check and fast! Let’s call this shit out for what it is, total harassment

  4. avid-learner-bot Avatar

    Wow. It’s just… so rude. I guess people feel entitled to ask whatever pops into their heads, but that doesn’t make it okay. I mean, birth control? What does that even have to do with anything… I’m a little confused, honestly. Was he implying something? Ugh, men can be so… perplexing sometimes! And you’re right, it’s none of his business. It’s incredibly intrusive and disrespectful. Maybe he was just having a bad day, but that’s no excuse. I hope you’re not letting it bother you too much. It’s okay to feel upset, but don’t let someone else’s ignorance ruin your peace