I am a divorced mother of two. My kids are 4 and 6 and go to their dads every other weekend. A lot of red flags have surfaced the past few months (but little red flags here and there for years). Bruises on my 4 year little girl. Dad admits to “kicking them instead of spanking with hand”. Like he said he uses his foot instead of hand? Acts super casual about it. Kids told me about it first and said they don’t like it and it hurts. Daughter comes home with bruises on her side and last time two bruises on her legs that looked like she had been held down hard or pushed up against a bar or something? Two ex girlfriends of him have come to me and said they think my kids are not safe with him- that when they are sleeping, he has multiple women over the years come in and drink and do edibles with him and have sex. My daughter walked in on one of the girls when she was three of them having sex. Do I have enough to go for supervised visits? He currently lives in a one bedroom apartment with them on a blow up mattress in living room. He Got rid of all their toys and bed.
Location: Houston Texas
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You have enough for full custody take his rights he dose not deserve kids
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You need to document times and dates and make sure to take pictures. Otherwise it’s just heresay and your words versus theirs and probably won’t hold up in a court of law. Once you have enough, contact your family lawyer if you have one and start fighting to gain sole custody. If you don’t have one, you’ll probably need one.
Not sure about the recoding laws in your state, but nanny cam bears are pretty neat.
Document document document and take pictures of any bruises on your children. I would contact an attorney I would also go to the police department and report it so they have it on file