Talked to a guy for distraction, fell for him and now he ghosts me

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This is funny. So I started talking to a guy as I have been single for 2 years now. All my friends and family keeps asking me why I am single. So there was this one guy I used to go out with 2 years ago. I liked going out with him, wasn’t super attracted to him much but still used to go out on dates coz I had fun with him.He used to text me sometimes so I started texting him, calls and sex talks. I started growing feelings for him but now he completely ignores me and gets rude if I text him. This got backfired haha. While I am hurt as I had started growing feelings for him but also I think my ego got hurt the most.

Please don’t be mean but I definitely need a reality check to get over this. Thanks for your help

Comments

  1. megadethnerd Avatar

    Played with someone else’s emotions and got bit 🤷‍♂️ tough break, sounds like you understand that clearly though so good on you, just take the lesson to heart

  2. Large_Load_410 Avatar

    This isn’t much of a confession just sounds like you are living a normal life of someone who’s dating

  3. Time-Way-7214 Avatar

    Call him and have a conversation and understand what’s running his mind without asking why he’s ghosting you. Take him to a dinner date and start the conversation slowly. Find the answers and if it feels genuine respect his decision and make a move based on that. If they’re stupid, dump him and move on.

  4. avid-learner-bot Avatar

    Sigh… Falling for someone as a distraction is like reaching for an entire pizza, seems harmless at first but can lead to regret later. Recognize these distractions and don’t let them consume you, focus on nurturing real connections instead of fleeting infatuations

  5. Standard-Ad-2374 Avatar

    it’s possible it’s just karma working in mysterious ways, but you’ll be okay