My man likes me to dirty talk him; I’m not good at it for some reason I always make it awkward and it throws the mood. someone please help!
Teach me how to dirty talk
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My man likes me to dirty talk him; I’m not good at it for some reason I always make it awkward and it throws the mood. someone please help!
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Don’t force yourself, maybe buy a spicy couple board game to help get the ball rolling. Some people like myself just can’t without some guidance.
Umm… what kind of dirty talk? There are different versions. What specifically?
I’m extremely awkward and what I did was start dirty talk sessions via text where I could form the thought fully before hitting send. Once confidence grows there you can do it in person and you will already have a good idea of what he likes.
Start with telling him you want to suck his cock
I love it when you fuck me.
Give me that fat cock.
Fill my little pussy up with your cock.
Cum deep in me please.
Make me your slut.
You make my little pussy feel so good.
You make my pussy feel so bad.
I want your cock now.
These are a couple of ideas off the top of the head.
I think the best way is to just keep doing it until it naturally improves by itself
“Lemme tell you about sewage treatment plants”
start subtle and work your way into it
I agree with another user about starting via text then building confidence off of that. Then it kind of depends on what your man likes specifically. Remember every guy is different. Does he get off on the idea of you giving him head? If so talk about that, what you want to do to him, how you want to do it. Send sexy pictures to accompany that. Soon enough you will feel comfortable and confident enough to actually say these things to him. Remember eye contact can be sexy so maybe while you’re doing something to him give a shy smile and maintain eye contact. I’m trying not to get too into it but that should give you an idea. Have fun with it!
Tell him you hate his fucking guts and you want to spank his fat ass, because he’s a little whinny bitch who always wants more
Look up at him while you’re eating the hot dog and say “can I have some mayo please”. You’ll be hooked in no time. ORRRRRR, Peg him and say “how’s that feel babe” 😂🤷♂️
Dirty talk ranges from itching very low hanging fruit, to super complex kinks. Just do action and say, “you like it when i do *action*? Then tell him how much you like certain things about him. and what you want him to do to you. these are the basics. oh and also ask him what he wants to do to you, so you can give him a chance to talk dirty too, do this when it seems right.
Insert more kinky things if kinky things are known, if not known they could trigger different things, you may benefit from just having a discussion about what kind of things he likes or turn him on, and then enthusiastically present those things as something you’d be willing to do (if you are).
Enthusiasm and confidence go a long way, and practice makes perfect.
Not during sex:
“I can’t wait to get you in bed tonight so I can show you how much I’ve been missing you all day” (after work)
“Do you think there’s enough room for my hands in there?(when he’s putting pants on)
“have something that’ll taste even better”(when you’re eating dinner/breakfast/ect)
“That’s not the only set of lips I’ve got for you to kiss ”(after a kiss)
“I want to be all yours tonight”(anytime)
“I think I need to be punished tonight, I’ve been bad all day”
During sex:
“Tonight is all about me, get down there and make that mouth work for what you owe me”(for oral)😏
“This pssy is all yours baby”(during doggy)
“I want you to finish on my face”(missionary)
“Ughaaahhh I love your cock so much”(cowgirl)😎🤣
“Don’t be gentle”(missionary)
“I know you can do better than that”(missionary
Text while he’s at work:
“You know, I’ve been thinking about you all day.. thinking of all the places I can fit you” (with a cat and eggplant emoji) 😏
“I want to show you something” ( picture of your 🐱 with 2 fingers ontop of your clit”
“You could be behind me right now” (take a nude picture of you arching your back
Definitely order a collar with his name on it and send him a picture of it with “I’ll be good for you”
i honestly just tell my man talk to me during sex and he does then i just go with the flow lol or just use the old fashioned “OH MY GOD YESSAHHHH” “JUST LIKE THAT BABY UHHHH” works like a charm
I take off my robe and wizard hat…
Or
You like that, you fucking retard?
Classics – you can’t go wrong.
“I’m gonna make this mine, then I’m gonna piss on your face, I’m gonna fart in your mouth, then I’m gonna shit on these balls Ray!…”
Depends on what they are into. I’m going to give some examples of what might match up with what would work out for you! 🙂
Some simple average stuff would be things like
• “You feel so big/good/(whatever u want to put)”
• “You make me feel so (horny/wet/whatever just is accurate)
• “I love it when you (___)”
• “do you like that?/when I (whatever your doing to them)
(Or just be raunchy! Tell them what you want to/them to do to them/you. Just make it dirty like a flirty tone or something lol. Be descriptive of what your fantasies are in their ear, or just over text, or just straight to them)
(Maybe he also wants you to urk him, make things little flirty challenges, like “make me”. Or just push sexual buttons on purpose, teasing)
If they like something a bit more specific some simple ones will still work, and also more like praising phrases, you can use things like
• “you look so good/(any praise/compliment) like this”
• “your doing such a good job”
• “your so handsome/(compliment) when your all (whatever you might be making them act or do, like tied, or flushtured)
But for opposite desires, they might want it dirty dirty, degrading. If they like more mean speech, you can use more lewd things. It’s a lot like the praising phrases, just replace the praise with a degrading word.)
• “you look so pathetic like this”
• “your such a little (insult. Maybe slvt/bitch, things of such)’
I don’t know how deep the freak level goes for y’all but I covered what I think might help you, hope this helped, and it’s ok to be shy or nervous to do it maybe even awkward, but don’t be ashamed!! I can 100% guarantee they will like it and find it hot, no need to embarrass cause it’s making them feel other things that definitely AREN’T embarrassed.
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Tell him “I wash the dishes with my pee” or “I threw away all my deodorant”
Now that’s dirty
The word please goes a long way
Read erotica.
But in actuality when it comes to kink, someone has to be into it themselves for it to really work. If you are confident, open minded, and willing, it can work, but usually it’s hard with people who aren’t kink compatible,
I learnt a long time ago not to get into committed relationships with women who aren’t sexually and kink compatible. Food for thought.
I also assume by “kill the mood” it’s his mood being killed, as you are trying. Sooo this is actually his request, life isn’t a porno, he should expect some awkwardness and be ready to perceiver/carry the moment. This is on him more than you tbh, you simply trying is gold star, him letting his mood get killed when it is for him in the first place, is immature and weak.
I do OF and it can take practice but just try to be confident and eventually you will become confident. I will say things like “do you like that? Do you like the way I make you feel.” Etc so I don’t get in trouble.